to chat or not to chat

@dubaimt (273)
United Arab Emirates
February 28, 2007 5:22am CST
me and my ex have been in good terms a few years ago but then got sour again because of something.. he wanted that we be an "item" again even if he is already married and i have a fiance. crazy is it? but i know he is just pulling my leg. anyway, we really have good times together even before.. and now i see him online. my fiance says to stop any form of communication; his wife (who, btw, i know) says to put anything we had in the past. so, should i start chatting with him or stay off and ignore?
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@simplycza (1480)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
actually, it wasn't a sin if you wanted to still communicate with your ex. if you're good friends before then why not? but since your fiance told u already to stop communicating with him, i think you better follow ur fiance. this may cause trouble between the two of you in the future( he maybe jealous). what if your ex still has this "love" for you? since he's married to someone you knew, he should focus to his girl.
@dubaimt (273)
• United Arab Emirates
28 Feb 07
yeah, i know you are right.. we just had this problem before that we never had time to patch up, and when we did had the time to talk, it was too late since both of us are now committed to someone. no chat then. thanks for the advice!
• India
28 Feb 07
i think its ok to chat in such a situation if you are not becoming or suspected by the others wife to be a reason for their disharmony, that may cause. but your fiance's wife is already hinting your fiance to keep away. i think its better you drop out because it wont be good if you are the reason for any kind of marital disharmony that may arise.
@dubaimt (273)
• United Arab Emirates
28 Feb 07
no, no, no my dear.. you got it all mixed up.. i have a fiance and this ex is already married to someone i know... but the point is, if im going to start a marital disharmony, dont do it, right? thanks!!
28 Feb 07
I guess life is too short not to remain friends. If you were friends before, then why not try to get back to being friends again. Start chatting again and see what happens
@dubaimt (273)
• United Arab Emirates
28 Feb 07
yeah.. why not? ill let you know.. thanks!!