This would be soooo much harder...
By webbuff
@webbuff (926)
Philippines
February 28, 2007 6:06am CST
I have a friend where his husband died a couple of months ago.. and his husband specifically said "don't ever replace me.. dont remarry.."... my friend said "yes" im really puzzled what should you do? my friend's age is 31..
3 responses
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
28 Feb 07
if you love someone i think you would want them to be happy after u were gone. i might ask them to never forget me or to please remember the happy times we had , but i dont think i would ask them to never remarry, that sounds like trying to control from beyond
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
28 Feb 07
sure you can say no but im trying to think about how i would word it , i mean i would not want to make a dying person feel any worse about things, but i may explain to them how i feel and ask them why they would want me to ramain here all alone forever. i think i would tell them if i remarry you will always be in my heart and the memories we have will always be with me ,you will never be forgotten.
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
28 Feb 07
love comes in many forms, i have been maried twice and i love both of them differently,and even tho im no longer married to my first husband i love him in a different way than i love my husband now, i think the lost husband should hold a special place in her heart always but she should go on in her life and make herself happy.
@mshogrider67 (565)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I don't think it was fair of the husband to ask that, he was dieing and knew he wouldn't be around, looks to me like he would want her/him to be happy, 31 is awful young to spend the rest of their life alone. Besides you can not replace someone so to speak, my x will always mean certain things to me and no one can ever take that away from me.
