Why do some women fall in love with married guys?

Philippines
February 28, 2007 10:13am CST
When I went to had some pedicure last Sunday, the lady who did my pedicure was at the same time having some chit chat with the lady sitting next to her. Their topic was about love and relationship. She shared to the lady about her experience falling in love with a married guy when she was still 31 years old. She said it was the first time she fell in love with the guy, but sad to say, he is married. She finds him so attractive especially when he knew him as such a loving Dad and so thoughtful and so sweet. She even won't mind that he had a wife. As long as he is with her, it can make her day already wild. I don't know anymore what else happened to their relationship if they ended up together or not. She didn't share much about it anymore. My question is, do other women really fall for married guys? I mean, they are already married! I just thought married guys are mostly the first ones who would date other women, but in this case, this lady had really fallen for a married guy? What do you think about this?
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
28 Feb 07
all the good men are either taken or gay... i think a lot of people feel like that sometimes. i mean, they're married for a reason, its just someone got to them first. some women are just evil in the game of love. i always tell my husband that..women don't care you're married or not. since he's the kind of guy that people just like to be around. he has a great personality and he's kind and caring. i'm always worried that someone else will try to move in on my man as well. but i also think the logic of "you want what you can't have" comes to mind as well. they are blinded by their love for the person (which the married guy is at fault as well for leading the poor girl on, unless he makes it clear he's not interested and she still doesn't get the point) some women do it out of deperation, maybe they feel they don't/can't find someone else so they set their targets on him and him alone married or not. there could me several different reasons for all the different situations and people involved. i think both men and women should be mindful about the 3rd party involved as well.
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
Thanks for the wonderful response, emarie! You're absolutely right. There are just some women out there who are just interested with married guys. Especially if the guy's personality is some kinda the same with their own ideal man, they tend to love them no matter if he's married or not. Well, hope this will not happen to my future husband. I know there might be women who'll get attracted to him, but I hope he'll not into them. :)
@emarie (5442)
• United States
15 Mar 07
i ALWAYS warn my husband about those type of women. but i trust him enough not to worry all that much =)
@palpalsky (899)
• United States
15 Mar 07
well too diffcult to says ..its entirely depends on time and situations ..well married men dont carry tag and well it depend on a individual how they resist the attraction
@a_jessie (46)
• India
15 Mar 07
first i like to say that women are the main role in a family to grow or even to destroy, such a women who falls love with a married guy, is a very bad and worst thing to say. Becoz she has never thought of his family, wht about his wife and children, even though she is a women, the world says that a women knows a women problem, then why she doesnot remembered that. A women from a good culture and a good family will never think like that. and the shameful thing is that she is discussion this matter with someone else. from my view it is a bad thing she is doing.