Tears
By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48686)
United Kingdom
February 28, 2007 3:20pm CST
Ok in my last couple of Discussions I have made you all cry by showing you Gissi's Story. Well today a dear Friend has managed to roll the Tears down my Cheeks. I spoke to this Gentleman tonight as he was helping me doing something on my Blog. He then Kindly asked me if I wanted to do another thing on the Blog, I had to decline as my Head was not with it due to my Sickness. He kindley asked me if it was anything Serious, so I told him about my Disability and that I am very sick at the moment because I have developed Pleuracy in both Lungs. I am on strong Medication and in Pain with this.
Well he sends me a Message with the link and says I hope you don't mind. I went to the Discussion and I read and tears are falling out of my eyes. I only spoke to him tonight and he dedicated this Discussion to me. It makes me so happy that there are still so many caring and Loving People out there and like he says we live Worlds Apart. Since joining mylot I have met so many loving and caring Friends and I sometimes wonder how I have deserved that. I appreciate and love you all. A lot of you keep me going and you all do not know how much you are helping me. I am just me plain Gabs who loves to help People, soothe People and care for People and my Award is all you loving and caring Friends. I am very rich in my Life. I have 2 wonderful Children, 1 wonderful hopefully future Daughter in law classed as my second Daughter, a lovely Man that cares for me and loves me and all you wonderful Friends and no money in this world could ever buy that so I am a very Rich Woman
Well thats enough from me I feel a bit emotional here lol
Here is the Link to the Discussion
http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/832194.aspx
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26 responses
@vaishuraj (5)
• India
1 Mar 07
yes friends not money make man rich . person who have best friends are very lucky like u.I can find best people in my life
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@weemam (13372)
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28 Feb 07
MY dear gabs when I joined this site just over 1 month ago you were the first person to make me welcome and became my friend , You have so many friends because they can all feel the love that emits from you , and it is so true that this love comes accross in all of your responses , I feel priveledged to know you , God can feel all the love you have and he can also hear all the best wishes and prayers we say for you to be well again , take care my special friend xxx
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@rainbow (6761)
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28 Feb 07
Bless you honey, all you ever do is give, surely you deserve some of your good karma back!
We all have some good friends here and you have listend and helped so many of us, you need some help and support now, living alone for the first time and being so poorly, isn't that the time for friends new and old to band together and try to ensure you do not feel alone or sad?
You know I'm only at the end of the phone or I'll leave my IM on for you all day. I wish you wern't so far away or I'd look after you more.
Take care sweety.
Big hugs!
*********
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@banta78 (4326)
• India
1 Mar 07
Hello gabs,
You are very special friend of mine. And it pains me that you are suffering so much and have to deal with it alone. I feel sad that i can't help you physically as we are so far apart but i will be there for you in mind and spirit. I will pray for your speedy recovery. I just hope if your family could be with you, it would have been nice. Frankly i don't know what to say anymore as i am overwhlmed with emotions. Please do keep posted about your health. I sincerely feel god helps those who help themselves. And that nice things do happen to nice people and you deserve a lot of happiness. And yes you are a rich person, much richer than anybody could dream. You know why? b'coz you have such a big heart and caring soul. Love you always. MY sweetest friend, gabs. :)
@banta78 (4326)
• India
1 Mar 07
Dear gabs it feels nice to read that medication are making you feel bit better. Hopefully god willing and with prayers of your family and friends like me, you will recover fully very fast. Have faith in god and in yourself. Continue with medication till full recovery. take proper rest. I will be trying to find and give you tips on yoga, meditation and breathing exercises. hopefully that will help too. And please do quit smoking, if you haven't done already. good luck, gabs :)
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Mar 07
Banta thank you so much for this
I am actually feeling a bit better today so I guess that the Medication has set in. My Kids phone every Day and make sure I am ok I have my Friends on here Friends like you that help me and that makes me feel secure and safe
I have Friends that are ringing me to and one friend that has her IM open all Day and if I do not reply she rings to make sure I am ok, I am well looked after by all of you and I love you all
Love and big Hugs to you
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@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
1 Mar 07
Gabs my friend,I truly don't think you realise the effect you have on people.You are so kind and loving!I know you have been a great comfort to me in my time of need.You just seem to know the right thing to say to make me feel better.Just knowing you are there if I need you is so comforting.Please get well soon my dear friend.Love,hugs and many blessings!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Mar 07
Actually Nikki I don't because I am just me and I just amazed at what People have said here I am just Gabs who loves to help her Friends and be there for them I always have. I have been kicked many a time by being like this but it just never stopped me but I have to say that all my lovely Friends here are just as special
These responses have really touched me to the Heart I just wanted to say thank you to Wilderr as I was so touched what he did and I was so amazed as it was the First time I had spoke to him. To all my Friends I love you all and I am always here for you sick or not. Nikki a big Hug for you my Love you need it (((((((((((((((((((((((((Nikki))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I saw that discussion Gabs and was overwhelmed too. It's a wonder what our friends here at myLot can do. It is amazing and we are blessed to come across such wonderful people whom we hardly know. I'm so sorry about your ailment,I'm sure you will recover soon, our prayers and good wishes are with and your family always Gabs. Love you tons and take care dear.
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@Alexandria37 (5717)
• Ireland
1 Mar 07
I also read the discussion and it almost brought tears to my eyes. I had no idea that you were so ill as you seem to hide it with your great sense of humour. I wish you all the best and I hope you will soon have your health back. Take care and best wishes.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Mar 07
Hi Alexandria
That is because I stay quiet about it and it keeps me going to help People and soothe them then my Illness is in the Background. Yes there are many tears cried when I am alone because I have always been a healthy Person and Active up unti 6 years ago when I was Diagnosed and the last 3 years have been bad. I am more ill in the Winter with it because the cold is bad for me. 2 years ago I was not like this, my poor Kids had a lot to deal with I was really bad crying, not talking and I needed councelling in the end. My Kids have been and still are great.
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@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
1 Mar 07
Oh yes there are a lot of friends and members that do sincerely care about one and other, which is very hard to find these day!! You have deserved what you received from being the kind of person that you are Gabs, and I do not think that your friends and members that know you here no matter where they live would doubt this. Money cannot buy real friendship and love in this world that we live. I have already been to this other discussion and it was wonderful thank you I love you too!!
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@SexyMhei (152)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Good day Gabs, I'm so blessed ith your post, very few are thankful for the blessings they got, especialy in your condition. I don't know how sick you are physically, but compare to others you are healthier than most of us. You have such strong spirit and emotional balance that you are able to handle such things and still even able to reach out to others. I don't wonder why you have so many friends. You inspired me. Thanks for sharing your strength with us, and I'll pray with you that you may get well physically too. God bless you..
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@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
i had read the discussion of wild for you. i think he is a nice and good friend. he is also my friend, so far he is nice and his post are good too. sorry to know that you are that illness, i will help you pray so that you will be fine. i added u to my friends list, hope you got a chance to reply on it. thanks and more power to you.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
1 Mar 07
That was very sweet and compassionate of him. I am finding as I read the discussions on here that there are a lot of people here with compassion in their hearts and that is what makes this place so special. People reach the hand of friendship and it is grabbed and shaken with gusto. That is what friendship is all about. Helping someone you care about ease the pain in their heart and I see many people doing that here. This is a close community and people come here to bare their hearts and their friends help sooth it. There is laughter here too and that just gives mylot even more specialness. A little laughter, a little tears and we all grab our hands together and form a circle around the person.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Mar 07
Sunshine this is so lovely written and so true and that is why the scammers and the nasty People that are here will never win or ruin this Site as we are all to close together and we will beat them. I have to say I am so grateful for the Day 3 years ago when I decided to take a Computer Course and start on the Internet it has given me so many Friends and People that I love
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@retardedrugrat (4791)
• Canada
1 Mar 07
I saw that discussion too and left a response to my friends both here and all over the world.
It's just wonderful what people can do when we stand together. I've made so many friends through the internet - wonderful ones that I could not imagine my life without, and yet, I've never met them.
I'm sorry that you are suffering so - good people do not deserve to suffer.
I was honored to respond to that discussion and to do my bit. I'm humbled to call myself your friend.
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@dana234 (2114)
• Spain
28 Feb 07
I´m sorry you´re sick, gabs and really wish I could help you.
I´ve read the discussion. It´s truly touching. I haven´t been a friend of yours for long, but love your sense of humour and positive outlook.
It´s good to know that your surrounded by a loving family and you certainly deserve all the caring friends you´ve got.
Take care.
Blessings and lots of love
Dana
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Hi there Gabs,It is wonderful to have friends that care.Everybody needs someone to be there for them and listen to their problems.You obviously are a friend,because to have a friend you have to be a friend.Your friends see something special in you.From all of your discussions you seem to be a fun,caring and sweet person.I hope that you will stay the strong person you are.You will get through your illness.God is with you.I wish you the best my dear.TAKE Care and yes like i said before the Gissi story will always be in my mind when i buy my dog for my children when buy our home!!!
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Hi gabs I tried that link and nothing could be found sorry. That was really nice of that guy that was helping you. What can I say you are loved alot and yes you are rich with love that fills your heart for people. Now we have stop with these tears Im trying to type and I cant see because of the tears in my eyes. Dont ever lose your love for people. Love to you my dear friend.
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@Darkwing (21583)
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1 Mar 07
Gabs, I can only say that you deserve all the love you get. You are one of the kindest, most thoughtful and caring people on this planet, and I love you dearly. I will always be here for you as I know you will be for me.
Now, look what you've done. I've got tears too.
Get well soon, my special friend. Luv and hugs. xoxoxox
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@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Isn't it wonderful how a complete stranger can reach out touch your heart!. You deserve it gabs. hugs and xxx
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Ok....I had to break out the Kleenex yet again. I read his post. It was wonderful. Such a kind guy. And you are NOT "just plain old gabs"! You are one of the most loving people I know, and the world would not be the same without you. I hope you get to feeling better soon hon. Love you lots. (((((((((gabs)))))))))
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Mar 07
Awwww Kat thank you and I will send you a box of Kleenex in the post as you must have nearly used them up lol and yes I was amazed but I have met so many lovely People and Friends on here now and you are one of them ((((((((((((KAT))))))))))))))
to you
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