Do females prefer a male partner who can dance?

@Cookie85 (242)
United States
October 15, 2006 11:16am CST
I personally cannot dance well at all, but i love to watch people dance, at sometime in my life i will take classes! haha, because i believe women love dancers! Is it true?
49 responses
@netizen (534)
• India
15 Oct 06
If this true, then what happend to those who dont know how to dance? Dance is for an entertainment. Life is to enjoy. There is a lot of difference between entertainment and enjoyment.
@netizen (534)
• India
15 Oct 06
Entertainments lasts within few hours but enjoyments never lost if you manage how to keep it for ever. Dance is an entertainment but, enjoyments are living with a husband who doesn't know how to dance. What I mean is, dance alone never make a life.
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• India
15 Oct 06
gr8 answer NetiZen... i like it..
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
I would like to know what these differences would be?
15 Oct 06
Depends if the woman herself can dance! I personally can't, so you could expect a rival in the toe stamping department!
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15 Oct 06
Haha, something you could only get away with as a kid. ;)
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Haha, yeah, i remember when i was young, i got to dance with my Aunt at her wedding, i was just a little kid, but i just kept stepping on her toes and her dress...but then again all the older people though it was addorable.
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
18 Oct 06
I'm pretty sure i could get away with it still....to some i am adorable, haha
• United States
15 Oct 06
You know Im a chick and I cant dance either...Its something I've always wanted to learn...I mean at my wedding Im going to have to dance, people are going to be laughing me...either way Im sure they do if they them selves can dance!!!
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• United States
15 Oct 06
Yeah thats what I want to adventually do, because my fiance cant dance either...lOl...he's a hippy type so his dancing is kinda wiered!!!
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@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Hahaha, i understand, i was just at a hippy wedding not too long ago, lots of weird dancing going on, but it was alot of fun.
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Its your wedding! nobody will laugh and if they do, they will be laughing with you! And if you want to learn to dance i think you should go for it.
@lpsanche (208)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Well, I'd love a man who can dance. That's not an extremely important feature but is better if my partner can dance. I love dancing and I can't imagine having to go to a Dance Party and not being able to dance with my partner. I can't imagine nor being able to dance merengue, or salsa, or just hip-hop. So, If i were you I would take this dance classes, but only if you really want to learn. Just a hint, there's nothing more sexy than a guy who can dance Merengue or Salsa. it is impressive..
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@lpsanche (208)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Well if you really want to learn you can. I have a friend who had no rhythm at all.. but he reaaaaaaaaaaally wanted to learn how to dance merengue. During the summer he would come over and I would teach him until sunrise... and guess what... he's pretty good now at dancing merengue... So i think that if you have the determitation and the dedication to learn.. you will
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@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
16 Oct 06
You're right, anybody with determination will do whatever it is they put there mind to, i am very dedicated and determined to most anything i do, so i am sure i will have success in dancing. If i'm not that great at it, at least i tried and i should have fun anyways.
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
I love to watch Dancing with the stars! And i agree there is nothing more sexy than a guy or a gal who can dance any of those exotic dances, latin dancing is by far my favorite.
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
15 Oct 06
Females are usually attracted and they turn own towards romance, kiss, hug etc and yes dance is a part of romance SO they would ofcourse prefer a partner who can dance well!
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• India
15 Oct 06
Nopes I cannot dance well hell i cannot dance a single step allthough my gf is a gr8 dancer but yes she just tells me that she will teach me a step or 2 to dance on Its how better you understand each other Ofcuz ppl arent perfect at anything and u din learn to dance from ur childhood! make an effort and i bet u will be good at it
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@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Yeah nobody is perfect, and practice only makes you better. So i suppose people that don't know how to dance, should just practice? And have fun. Thats probably the most important thing about dancing, is just to have a great time, agree?
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
So what if the guy loves to dance, but he can not dance well, does this become a problem?
• United States
15 Oct 06
I won't say I love dancers, but I do think it is sexy when my hubby dances with me. That said, he really can't dance, but that doesn't stop him from turning on some romantic music and twirling me around the living room. I give him an A+ for effort.
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@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
16 Oct 06
That is romantic.
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Yes very romantic! I give him an A+ as well!
• United States
15 Oct 06
I cant dance but I dont care if my hubby can dance. I wish I could so we can go out more often but my hubby dont dance either.
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@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Maybe you two should go take some classes, there are so many different types of dance classes out there, i bet it would be fun!
• India
16 Oct 06
no
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
17 Oct 06
I don't think that woman neccesarily want someone who can dance, I think woman want a man who loves them and is good to them.
• United States
17 Oct 06
I agree, good luck finding Miss Right.
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
17 Oct 06
I am definatly a lover, and when i am in a relaionship i am going to be very good to them, i am picky, because i am very sensitive, i don't want to be hurt in choosing my relationships. I think dancing would be a plus in anybodies relationships
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Oh thank you, she will be around someday that is for sure!
@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
15 Oct 06
I'm a woman and I would prefer a partner that can dance because I love to dance and I use to visit the dance clubs on a regular basis, I just don't go much because of the children, but I still dance and my husband can dance also. I guess I got lucky, my cousin loves to dance and her boyfriend has two left feet.
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@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
15 Oct 06
I think women do like a man who can dance, but that is not everything. My partner is not the greatest dancer..but I don't hold that against him. I have thought about us taking some ballroom dance classes though. There is something about the dance that is alluring...
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• United States
16 Oct 06
I would KILL for a man who can dance with WILD ABANDON, dance like nobody is watching. I love to dance, and I haven't been dancing for like 10 years because my partner doesn't dance. Sometimes I just turn on the radio and dance all by myself.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
15 Oct 06
Yes women do get attracted to male dancers it is a perfect way to get close and passionate with your counterpart.
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@prncesssly (1373)
• United States
15 Oct 06
I took dance classes for 15 years. I love a man who can dance and I love watching people dance. My husband dances but not all that well, but he really wants to learn to be better. We might take some dance classes. Just have to find some time to do it!
15 Oct 06
Good luck in finding the time! :)
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@bhbirdie6 (1765)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Of course women love men who can dance! It shows confidence and ability and that is incredibly sexy. Even if you can't dance a willingness to learn is nice too.
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I think that in general this is a nice characteristic for a man to have. It's something that meant a lot to me when I met my husband. I love to dance and so it made me happy to meet someone who also loves to dance and is very good at it. Dancing was never a deal breaker for me, though, and I doubt it is for a lot of women. And, there are plenty of women out there who don't like to dance themselves, so whether or not their partner dances shouldn't be an issue for them (perhaps it would be for the partner, if he likes to dance a lot). You say you like to watch people dance and would like to take lessons. Sounds like you have a genuine interest, and it's great fun. Take lessons by all means, but there's also something to be said for just getting out there and practicing because that helps you get over being shy.
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
16 Oct 06
This is very true, i think i AM quite shy, i do love to put on a show for my roomies tho, because its just fun! I think if i end up taking classes it will help me get out there and be ok with my movements, just because i would be able to pick up a few moves that could impress women, it would just be a confidence booster. But i really want to take classes because i would love to properly dance, if i was to go to some disco club, thats fine any dancing goes, but when you go to suffisticated places, i would want to fit in.
@Duvessa (913)
• United States
17 Oct 06
I wish my boyfriend could dance but he's like me and pretty much sucks at it, lol unless we've both had a few drinks!
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Everything is better after a few drinks! haha
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
17 Oct 06
I am not a very good dancer although I do like it and try my hardest because my husband is a good dancer. I haven't ever taken classes though as we have always lived in the country and it is too far to travel to do so.
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
18 Oct 06
So do you do alot of square dancing?
• India
17 Oct 06
thats a great question to ask lets me know how many yes we get from females and then we can judge i might even join a dance class after that
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
17 Oct 06
I'll try and keep track of the females...
17 Oct 06
I personally love men who can dance. I am a huge latin dancing fan and really enjoy a good dancing night out. Unfortunately my other half isn't a dancer at all but I will get him to take lessons if it's the last thing I ever do!
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Latin dancing is amazing! Someday i will know the secret art of latin dancing.
@antoisra (820)
• Sri Lanka
18 Oct 06
Hmm. Perhaps one should learn to dance better ;) I know some, like fox-trot and stuff like that, but it's just boring. Hehe :P
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
18 Oct 06
So what is the fox-trot? haha
@hazeru3 (136)
• United States
21 Oct 06
I love dancing....my hubby kinda dances.....I love him for trying and getting on the floor with me. Though if he enjoyed dancing id definetly go more often.....the most I get is at home in private, but thats not so bad:) on the othe rhand he did get me couples swing dancing lessons for my birthday 2 years ago, and even though he paid, we've never been. So while im happy now, I would like someone who was a better dancer
@Cookie85 (242)
• United States
21 Oct 06
He paid but you two never went! What happened with that?