Has anyone of you try to go on with you married life coz of the kids?

I feel that this would be harder on the children , as children can feel all the tension in the household and if you didn't want to be with the person you were with the children would not be happy eithter as you would not be happy . Children dread the thought about their parents getting a divorce and of course it is very hard on them but in the long run they do adjust and I believe they will realize how much easier it is then having everyone fight and all the tension . With so much tension in a household they would be yelled at more often just because everyone would be more stressed out because of the situation . It is always hard to adjust to something new and different and this is always scary , so this is what makes it so much harder for a child to be able to accept the thought of mom and dad not being together again . My mom and dad divorced and I was upset at the time , now I can see how much happier everyone is and that they are better apart . Together they were never happy and either was anyone else .

I haven't been in that situation i am not married but i am a mother and have a partner and i know that if me and my partner were married and the marrige was over i would not stay in the marriage for the sake of my daughter and for mine i would seperate because staying doesn't help the children they know whats going on even young children can sense the tone in a voice or the bad atmosphere. two happy parents apart are better than two arguing ones together. i think as long as they know you both love them then eventually things work out.

I stayed in my marriage for my girls. But as the years went on I knew I was there for the wrong reasons. I finally got out of the marriage and mine and my girls lives are much happier...so I think if you are in a marriage just for the kids just get out why make thing worse than what they are. And the kids do see things that you don't think they are understanding.