how long before u get over it??

my uncle passed away about 6yrs ago. till today i have trouble accepting it let alone getting over it. whenever we have a function i absent mindedly will ask his kids what time he'll be arriving or where is he? whenever we drive pass the graveyard i always start crying or will stare as if he's watching. don't know if it gets easier....hope it does!

Ohh sweety..I am soo sorry that you are having such a bad time dealing with your grieving..I know how hard it can be..and i dont know if i would ever be able to deal if my dad left me..hes very close to my heart..and we are best friends..but I lost a true love years ago and to this day i will cry for him at night.Not because of where he is..but because i want to be with him again..Soo this is what i do..I will laythere at night when i go to bed..and i will call for him..and then i wil talk to him like he is right here in front of me..i will imagine his face in my mind..and the more I talk to him.. the better i feel..maybe this will help you..that is what has been getting me the days..I wish u luck..

Twenty years ago I lost my dad and sister just 4 months apart. My mom passed 5 years ago. I still cry for them. It does get easier but I will always miss them. I find talking about them helps. If you are still mourning to the point where it interferes with your life, then you might want to see a grief counselor.

My father passe away 15 yrs ago and there are a lot of things i do in life that brings me back to the days when he was a live like when i watch my grandkids play sports. My dad was always at them. I can go fishing anf i remember when we went fishing. little this brings back memeories which is a good thing. Its not as bad now as it use to be in memories. It does take time but no one can give you a set time, you learn on your own when things are better..