my sister in law yesterday suffered a miscarriage
@sandeep_2991984 (675)
India
February 28, 2007 11:40pm CST
my sister in law suffered a miscarriage yesterday night at 10.15 pm in night. everybody was waiting for the child so curiously because there is no daughter in our family. i am feeling bad from night and not able to understand what to do and she is so upset. i wanna share my disappointment with you.
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@MissMo (170)
• United States
1 Mar 07
I'm very sorry to hear that, she and the rest of your family must be devastated. The best thing that I think you can do for her is to be there for her and let her know that you and the rest of the family still care about her and that it is NOT her fault. A lot of women sometimes end up blaming themselves for things like this when it was not their fault at all. I'll keep your family in my thoughts.
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@sandeep_2991984 (675)
• India
1 Mar 07
thanx friend for your concern. i think u r right that she needs lot of support but my family is with her and my family is not like other families. my family is taking care of her and every member in family is concerned about her and the main thing she is a very strong women. she will be able to come out of this. once again thanx for your concern.
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@grandkids08 (246)
• United States
1 Mar 07
My prayers are with you and your family, I just cant imagine what you are going thru. Just be supportive of you sister-in - law and help in any way you can and know how to. she will need lots of huggs..
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@sandeep_2991984 (675)
• India
1 Mar 07
thanx for your concern. i think so she needs lots of hug. i will try this.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
16 May 07
I am so sorry for this. I myself went through almost the same thing justa few days ago, It is impossible to even think about the pain and the feeling of loss I am not even able to describe. Once again - I am sorry for your sister in law
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@CinderInMySoul (4717)
• United States
1 Mar 07
my condolances to you and your family. my sister miscarried once and she was devastated. all you can do is be supportive and there for her. when you think she needs a hug, give her one.
also be aware that she made need time alone with just her husband too. it isnt anything against you or the rest of the family, but just something that her and her husband will need. they will grieve a bit deeper together, and hopefully will deepen their bond with each other.
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@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
31 Mar 07
That's so sad. I just read this. I see you psted it a month ago. I hope your sister in law is going a bit better now. I had 3 miscarriages and 1 stillbirth. It's something you never get over. If you want to help her, ask her about it every now and then. Ask her "how are you doing really?"
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