please give me some advice

I, also have been married for 7 years now. I found that my wife loves it when I get creative. All year long I listen for dropped hints and by the time our anniversary comes I have collected several items that she has admired through out the year. I write her little notes as to where she should search for them. It's fun for her and me. Usually it takes her most of the day to find each item. After we do dinner the last item can usually be found in the bedroom. They don't have to be expensive things, just thoughtful. She will be very appreciative that you took the time to think about her and that you went out of your way to make it very special. I hope this helps. Congrats on your number 7.