pregnancy matter

Philippines
March 1, 2007 2:23am CST
Here's my problem, i have an 8 month old and i was hoping not to get pregnant again, since it tiring to be pregnant, going through those symptoms again and limited actions taht you can do. But i am pregnant agian, and i was really frustrated, i cried when i found out about it, it was not on our plan, and i deliberately told my husband not to get me pregnant coz we are not yet ready, but things happen and until now i haven't accept it. My son is only 8 month old, not yet walking and its pretty tough to be a mom. i'd like to spend much quality time with my son, but i think i can'r do this now. What will my son feel?
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• United States
2 Mar 07
Everything should be fine. My son was 22 months old when our second son was born. Tell your son about the baby and shoe him pictures. After the new baby comes make time for you and him alone so he dosent feel left out. Best of luck to you. If you dont want any more children use the depo shot ar get your tubes tied.
• United States
1 Mar 07
Your son will proably be jealous at first. You are going to have to accept the fact that you are pregnant soon because you need to take care of yourself and go to the doctor. If you think you won't have enough love for two children, don't worry because you will. It will be hard to handle two little ones at once, maybe you have some family that could help out at first until you adjust? I hope that all goes well with your pregancy and I wish you luck!