How will you react when you caught a person lying to you?

@yana0806 (565)
Philippines
March 1, 2007 4:05am CST
Will you confront him on the spot? Or will you just pretend that you don't know the true story? And just let him tell you lies?
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7 responses
simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
2 Mar 07
I will confront him in a nice way of course...It is not right for a friend to just let him tell you lies because you are also lying to yourself for no reason and soon you will suffer and lost a friend...honesty is the best policy and i believe that it is the most important factor that any relationship needs so others can't break.
yana0806
@yana0806 (565)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
Yes I agree on that, better be honest and express our disapproval than tolerating someones lie!
cherriemae
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
I know my self that i cant do confronting the person on that spot. I still want to prevent if i caught him, but of course, i need to confront him about the problem so that i will know whats really the truth, if he really lye or i'm the only one who is thinking of it..
yana0806
@yana0806 (565)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
I think it's a good attitude if we first ask him about the problem, and if we confirmed that he/she is really lying, then we can have a pleasant conversation, and ask him/her the reason why he/she do that.
msqtech
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
1 Mar 07
It is better to know and ignore and never trust them. Dont create conflict because it will not help. Liars just lie anyway.
yana0806
@yana0806 (565)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
That's true, liars can always tell lie! But I also believe that although they are liars they can change, if they want to!
bkrishnarjun
@bkrishnarjun (49)
• India
3 Mar 07
ya firsty i will try to know that wheather really he is telling wrong or its my confusion. once oi will clear on that then i will try to figure out the region which makes him to tell lie. i think that if you will behave properly then surely next time he will reliese and then he wont lie with you.
bezzamae
@bezzamae (447)
• Philippines
4 Mar 07
ohh.. it would be very awful.. ive experienced that a lot of times. i just ignore that person and never place my trust on her. but they were also incidents that i have tried confronted one.. she became so blush and just turn her back on me. lol.
ashley_sahni1977
@ashley_sahni1977 (379)
• India
1 Mar 07
i think i m of those who will simply walk at tht very time to him her n let him her know tht stop lying
yana0806
@yana0806 (565)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
That might work, after all if we know the truth we can always tell her/him to stop lying...
Josette_J
@Josette_J (805)
• Malaysia
3 Mar 07
If someone was lying to me, I'd just keep quiet and accept what he/she said without bothering much about it. I would of course feel sad that someone lied. If it's my friend, yeah, I would confront him/her on the spot and tell them not to lie and just tell the truth. If it's someone I'm not close to, I won't care about it at all.