wiil I or will I not?

Philippines
March 1, 2007 11:47am CST
have you ever been confused on deciding if you want to marry or not after the guy propose a marriage to you? a friend of mine is regularly dating her boyfriend for about 5 years now.. two years ago, her bf ask her to marry him but she was confused of whether she will say yes or no. anyone who have experienced the same situation? she loves her boyfriend so much but cant say YES? shes worried that her bf might think other reason why she cant decide.. your response is greatly appreciated.
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@lotofme (10)
• Hong Kong
2 Mar 07
as long as u have a commitment to maaried. Go for it.. Married not jaust love but commitment, n love not just happy or unhappy..but love is commitment.
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
1 Mar 07
I think if she can't say YES, she really doesn't want to get married. It may be that she just doesn't want to get married yet, or maybe she just doesn't want to marry him at all and is looking for something else. Perhaps she's just not ready for it. If he can't understand that she's just not ready yet, it may cause trouble but it's better for her to be honest. In my experience, when you want to get married you have no trouble saying YES and planning the wedding :) So the fact that she's unsure tells me she is not ready.