You find out one of your best friend's girlfriend...is cheating on him.

United States
March 1, 2007 3:32pm CST
This is a tuff one. I have a group of friends; we have all know each other for a few years or more. We play cards, watch football, hang around, help each other and for the most part get along great. I found out that one of my friend's girlfriend, who he has been dating for almost four years is cheating on him. Seems like everyone but Dave knows about Jen's cheating. the worst part is they are supposed to be getting married in June. It would be easier if they weren't both friends. I was thinking of just approaching Jen and seeing if I could find out why she's cheating and try to get here to stop or should I tell Dave what's going on? If I can get Jen to stop should we all just say nothing and let the wedding go on as planed? What would you do?
3 responses
lordwarwizard
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
3 Mar 07
This may be difficult for you but I do feel you need to tell your friend the truth. You mentioned that they are getting married soon... but why if there is no true love? Unless this is an arranged marriage... If this marriage will end up as a divorce, I think it is better that it has not taken place at all.
wendy82
@wendy82 (437)
• United States
1 Mar 07
To me, on this situation I would go and approach Jen and say if you do not go and tell Dave yourself I am going to tell him because I do not want to see a friend of mine getting hurt in the process because it is not right. But on the other hand maybe if you know where jen was maybe you could call dave and have him to meet you some place and then you dont show up or show up way before he does and hide and make sure that Jen doesnt see you and set it because they need to be faithful and open and honest if they are going to have a marriage vows. Because it is not right if they are in the process of getting married and then they are hiding something from one another. Maybe Jen and Dave wasnt meant to be together. Maybe it would be a good thing if you told them the truth. Or Pull a meeting together and see who shows up.
A_Skywalker
@A_Skywalker (274)
• Bulgaria
1 Mar 07
Tell your friend waht she does, he deserves to know the truth, if he marries her the fault will go to you when he understand what she does, because you didnt tell him.Save him from that girl, he deserves a better one!