I hate you!

More like, is there a parent that has'nt had this said to them from at least one of their children whilst growing up??? lol!!!! I think it depends on what sort of kids you have and what the situation is. I have a mild mannered daughter who would never say it outright ever, even if she should think it. My 7yr old is a different story. He's a chatterbox who's sensitive to everything around him.Meaning he gets very emotional when upset. When he gets denied something he really wants, occasionally out comes the 'mum I hate you'. Worst is the 'your really not my mother'. To be honest its like water off a ducks back, simply because I get 'mum your the bestest mum' 95% of the time lol. If I knew he truely harboured illwill towards me I guess I would be alarmed. But for my kids, its merely a weapon in their very limited arsenal lol.

My kids say it all the time. They are 6, 5 and 4. My oldest started saying if for dramatic effect when she was 3. I usually just ignore them or tell them I don't like them much at the moment either (because we are usually having a major disagreement). What I don't tolerate is them saying they hate each other over stupid stuff. My son has emotional control issues so when he gets mad he screams at anyone in his way and breaks everything out of frustration. He is always screaming at his sisters that he hates them. My 4 year old daughter tells me almost daily that she hates me, lol. All because I ask her to pick up her toys every day--that is just cause enough for her to hate me, I guess.

When my son that was 3 told me that. i about cried..it was like he took a knife and stabbed my heart..I was shocked he said that.Soo I told me that is wasnt nice and then he says I dont care! I hate you!!! I want a new mommy!! It was all because he wasnt aloud to play his playstation anymore that day..he needed a break..Soo i made a call..I called my Time and Temp guy..u know the machine weather guy? well I says.."Yes hi my name is April and my son Skylar hates me and wants a new mommy..soo can i trade him and give him what he wants??....oookk..ill start packing for him.." this sounds cruel..but wait..lol..he runs over says he sorry a million times..kisses me and says he will never ever say it again andthat he loves me..and doesnt want a new mommy.that he was just mad..and he grabbd the phone and threw it...lol well yea it broke..but i dont care..he has never ever said that to me ever again..:)

Absolutly! My teenage daughter use to tell me all the time she hated me. To begin with it bothered me.I relized I was telling her no for a reason and sooner or later she would figure that out. Eventually she did.She isn't grown now but I think she understands more how I feel and why I did what I did.

Oh my gosh, I dread this ever happening to me. My kids are only 14 months right now but I like to think they would never say such a thing to anyone, letalone their parents. I know my husband would whoop their butts if they said that to either of us. But, with that said, I think if my child ever did say that, yes, I would feel bad. My kids are everything to me and I try my hardest to be the best parent i can be. So if my kids said they hated me it would hurt my feelings. Even though I know they wouldn't mean it and shouldn't take it that way, I know I would.

I have 2 step sons ages 5 and 7 and they say it to me when they get into big trouble. I just shrug it off because I know they don't mean it. I honestly remember saying that to my parents when I was younger. Now, I don't like hearing it and I don't think any parent would or does. I just tell me boy that I love him and leave it at that.

just chang yourself to the way your child like you.after an time u can chng them to your way on that thime they can understand your point and situation

I have cant remember of any time that my kids have ever said that to me and I think that if they ever did I would have to bust them in the mouth sounds harsh but you cant let your kids run over you like that. My one son did call me a S.O.B. one day and yes he got his mouth popped. but my kids respect me for all the thing I did while they were growing up. but they also know that mom wont take any of their crap because their dad was never around so I had to be mom and dad both to my kids.

she said it every day! but she meant to say: i love you mam it is just a joke so i dont mind. so i dont feel bad about it!

I have a 3 year old and he has never said I hate you but he has said I do not love you. I just told him, well I still love you and then I had to walk away, I went into the room and cried, and my bf, his father came and comforted me. It was the worst feeling ever, even though I know he didnt mean it, but I hated that feeling. and now if he says it, he has said it one more time since then I can take it but the first time was the worst.

I don't have children, but I definitely said this to my parents when I was younger. I've probably even said it within the last year or two, which is embarassing to admit. I feel horribly about it now, and I know it did upset my parents, but at the same time I think they probably just chalked it up to me being a kid and not knowing how to deal with my anger.

I dont know what my child(who is 10 month old at present) would do when she grows up but I do remember saying this to my mum when I was a teenager .. today when I am mumma I can understand how bad she must have felt that time and how wrong I was. I can see now what she must be thinking and why she stopped me from doing certain things which were dear to me .. Mums are mums ya .. god's best gifts !! Do all kinds of naughty things but never break a Mum's heart .. they are the best .. I am gonna talk to my mumma once I log off the computer tonight !!

if your child says that "i hate u" then this is very serious case. U must see to it that they always love u. u must give more care & time to your child.

my 5 year old grandaughter said it to her mom the other day and later I took to the side and talked to her about it and explained that she was just mad at her mom at the time and how much it makes us sad to hear her say that kind of thing and that i was sure she didnt mean it I also suggested next time she just says I am angry with you instead I asked how she would feel if someone said they hate her she was very sad and we havent heard it since

My two children are 2 months and 26 months, so they are too young for that sort of talk! But I know that one day they will be teenagers and probably say hurtfull things. I guess it's something that all children do and as parents I guess we will have to deal with it.

i have four kids and now they are 16-15-13-11, and luckily they havent said that word to me yet. that would really be hurting.

I still don't have a child because still solo :-D. But if i have a child someday, of course i feel bad if they say that. And hopefully, try to prevent it before happed. Hope we all succeed in parenting :-)

My kids haven;t actually told me this yet (or at least not to my face!) but I remember when My partner and I got together my son was just 4 - and always on his best bahaviour around him. That lasted a while and it was good but the inevitable happened and one day he told my partner that he hated him, partner didn't respond - just walked away. Later I asked if he was ok and apologised for my son to which he replied that there was no need, he was actually pleased because he felt my son had accepted him and felt safe enough to vent his anger on him - one of the many reasons I love him ...