Are you a people pleaser?

I think I probably was a people pleaser but only in hindsight did I realize I would always do for others because I wanted to be liked by everyone and had low self-esteem. It took a number of years but gradually I've come to the realization that I like to do things for people to see their smiling faces of thankfulness. If I can't do something for someone for whatever reason I now tell them no, I'm sorry I can't do that, and I find I don't need to come up with a reason or excuse, if I can't I just say I can't. This attitude took a long time for me to develop but it helped that I listened to other people about people-pleasing who shared their experience and I'm getting better at it every day. Thanks for asking.