Frustrated husband

United States
March 1, 2007 4:56pm CST
I have found through conversations with other men that I am not the only one in this position. It seems funny that through my experience, when I have dated women they seem to want to satisfy me more often. I have been with my wife for two years and now she always finds an excuse to not want to make love. Here is the question that I am asking. Why is it that when you put the ring on their finger then well tends to dry up? I am not trying to be mean but I have to make light of the situation or else I am going to go insane. I love my wife so cheating on her is not an option that I am looking into, I am just wondering what I could do differently to make her want to do it more often. I always hear that she isn't in the mood from her but when we were dating she always seemed to be. What's up with that?
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SKLC_PT
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2 Mar 07
Also remember that women usually aren't like men, men can get into the mood quickly most of the time and for women it can be the entire day. Do things through out the day not only when it comes to the time to.... I agree with the above you should try to speak to here also. Why not have your kids sleepover one day at a friends house and treat her like a princess, give her a foot rub, some candles, music.... just let her escape from routine as routine can take a toll on it. Maybe ask her if she has any fantasies she'd like to try...