Help....

thank you so much. This was the problem last year. The school went and told me that there was nothing wrong with him because he is a fast learner. His grades are good and he is not mean to the other children like he is at home. I finally got it out of his teacher that he can't sit still and he can't controll himself with out bursts and he's always sitting on his toes in class. She said that it's like he feels that he needs to show off for the other children there. I'll know more tomorrow when i see her. I told her what was going on and now she will be sending notes home every day starting today.

Oh my this is my son. He is so angry all the time. When he's on the meds he's my handsom good boy. He's very taklitive when he's off the meds and not only that but he had this nasty habbit. We always yelled at him for it. When he's not on the meds he poops his pants but then he won't tell us about it and keeps them on. I have to force him to change them. He's 6 years old. He didn't start with this pooping the pants thing until towards the middle of last school year when he found out that we where having a nother baby. But the anger out burts where he's attacking myself, his brother, his sister (not so much) and his grandparents is so bad. I think that when he's off his meds he can really do harm and this scares me. When he get's like this i have to pin his arms and legs down on the floor and let him scream or cry it out. I feel so bad about it but i stops him from hurting himself and everyones else around him. I did feel like a bad mother putting until i put him on the meds and yes i was scared of what the meds would do to him as well. He's so good with taking them now. Befor he never would. He reminds me about it. When i told him that he was sick and that it would never go away i had to tell him that all of the bad things that he was doing would stop and that he wouldn't be getting yelled at all the time. With four children in the house it's hard to not have him on meds. My husbnad hates the idea but he don't deal with the kids all day long and see what goes on. His sister who is 2 also is showing signs of the anger and the hipperness. I'm scared that she might be adhd as well. When she gets mad she will throw the first thing that she can get her hands onto. If she can throw anything she will run up to you with this look in her eyes and start pinching you as hard as she can and hit you. It makes me feel like i'm not doing right by my children and yes i do cry at the end of the night from it. It hurts deep inside but i don't let the kids know.

Thank you so much. This is my son. it reads him right through, OMG I thought that i was correct with him. I was scared to put him on any merdication but now i'm a little happy that i did. He seems to be a little better but still won't listen when he's told not to run around the house. He is still a little hyper but he's only been on the medication for two days. Thank you for all your help.