Accepted Or Turned ..?!!!!!!!!

Egypt
March 2, 2007 1:55am CST
I had a girlfriend but her paretns did not agree to our relation On the other hand my girl asked for marriage without even blessings from her paretns i was confused,what should i do? Must accepted the offer? Or to be turned to other girl?
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5 responses
@anonymili (3138)
2 Mar 07
If you care about your girlfriend enough to consider marriage why are you considering other girls. Often it's girls who are stronger than guys when it comes to standing up to their parents. I don't have time for people who have to ask their parents permission for something as important as marriage, if you are both adults you should be able to make the decision yourselves. There are not many parents who not eventually come around to the idea unless there are fundamental reasons for them not wishing you to get married such as different religions (not saying that it's right, just that this is an area where parents might not ever back down). After saying all of that, it's up to you both to be mature and discuss it practically as to how long your love will last if she leaves her family. Can you live with the guilt of her family potentially disowning her? Will she resent you one day in the future for losing the love/support of her family? Love is led by the heart, but you mustn't be blind to all the other things that go with it too. Be mature and discuss things very carefully long and hard. Above all, I hope you both make the right decision for both of your futures.
• India
2 Mar 07
And just think one thing what she will be left with if you deny. Talk to her as much as you can to clear the situation if u try to avoid then everything will go in other direction. gud luck
@j12345 (163)
• New Zealand
2 Mar 07
When a girl gets married ..she leaves her fathers hand to be under yours .... but you should think about the outcome of this decision first .... this could ruin her relationship with her family forever.
@tamanash (950)
• India
2 Mar 07
if you really love her then you should find a way out.after all its both of you who have to spend whole of your life with other.your or your girl friends parents dint have any role to play except their well wishes.as both of you are adults and you should take the best decision possible.talk with her parents and explian them how much you love her.i am sure they will agree .
• India
2 Mar 07
When she is marrying you she is leaving everything behind for you, and you also have to think about the outcome of the decission also i also faced the sameproblem but my GF handle it very well she stood to her decission and we were firm that we will make them accept this relation we try till we suceed and it happened just some weeks ago. I tell you dont loose her if you really love her. But finally decisson is on you to deny or accept try to convence that you can do something if u want to do and you both have to do it very firmly and tactically this is the testing time for any relation its really easy to skip but daring to face it. I can tell you these kind of situation can make your relation very strong if you act otherwise it will distory, everything is in your hand and only you can do it. Gud Luck wish you very best