mother
By jhoanee
@jhoanee (598)
Philippines
March 2, 2007 3:23am CST
this is a question for all mothers here, although if your not yet a mom and wanted to share some ideas then feel free to do so
pregnancy and childbirth works together to create a bond like no other. is it hard to become a mother? whats the biggest responsibility to become a mother? in which part it become harder? do you think your the first one responsible to your child's actions? what do you want to your kids to become in the future?
just to have some idea of being a mother.godbless!
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2 responses
@Rosy001 (363)
• South Africa
2 Mar 07
I think it is a huge responsibility, a huge challenge in ones life and at the same time it is a huge blessing and an awesome experience. it's not hard, just some adjustment to ones life and a change to your mindset. what you do, say, act - anything that your child can and will learn from you will obviously affect them. you need to be the best role model for them. i have a lil girl - i want her to be a ballerina and my hubby wants her to play soccer. she's only a baby now so we've decided that we'll let her do anything viz. soccer, ballerina, karate, swimming etc. she can decide from there what she likes. we'll give her the tools and options guide her, and she can choose one day without us imposing what we want.
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
yeah i agree with you being a mother everything is huge..lol..i mean everything is change in your life, you had bring someone into this world. your life has a huge difference from being a single. and i also agree with you that we should let children decide on what they want in life, mother or parents are there to support for whatever their children wants for as long as they teach values to them. congrats to you for being a mother, i too want to become a mother sooner.
thanks and goodluck!
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@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
I should say, becoming a mother is a great blessing, a marvelous gift not everyone in this whole wide world can ever have...and yeah, with that great gift comes a great responsibility. A challenge to be a model like no other and lead your child into a life where she can enjoy whatever God has set for her. A mother is really responsible for raising her child into a great person with great values and good heart, of course her husband should also take his part on this. However, since the mother has already established some sort of bonding with her child as she carried her in her womb for nine months, I should say that everything in the mother does greatly affect the child, be it her intelligence, the way she perceives things, her spirituality, and the pureness of her heart.
I am not yet a mother though, but I would love to be one someday soon. I would love that day to come where I can hear sweet little voices playing around and calling me "mommy". By then I could say am a full pledged woman. :)
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
yeah your right becoming a mother is really great blessing that comes with a great responsibility too. i am not yet a mother too just like you but i do wish that someday sooner i can hear also hear those little angels calling me mommy or mama and i guess ur right when you become one you will be fully pledged as a woman. goodluck to you!
