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@jencai (3412)
Philippines
March 2, 2007 3:28am CST
what will you do if someone special came (person) into your life? while at present you are about to marry you're boyfriend. Of course, you dont want to hurt him in anyway, but how about the feeling for the other one? should i forget him or not?
7 responses
@no_chao (548)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
i will feel bad for that if i know that i still love my boyfriend and he loves me as well. i dont want to make my partner fool it it comes to third party that's why i am very honest to him. if there's a guy who's hanging around me, at the very first moment i noticed that there is an illegal intention and i feel like fishy things coming next i really have to told it to him. at least he has an idea what will come next if he wont do moves. but fir aslong as you really love your bf and you know that there is security between you two, why give-up for the sake of "someone special", unless you have more magical feelings to that someone than your boyfriend. remember girl, its your life. if where is your happeness then be it. go girl...
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
you enlighten me no_chao. i really want to thank you for that. god bless you my friend.
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
When you decided to marry you're boyfriend, you decided to be with him for the rest of your life. What made you made that decision? your love to him. Maybe, thats what they call matrimony jitters, you tend to have second thoughts and you thought that you felt something for someone, but after matrimony, you'll be at peace. Be wary of these feelings, make assessments again. Then decide.
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
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• India
2 Mar 07
well i will feel very bad for myself...but as my counterpart will be satisfied with his/her decision i wud rather leave the matter upto her and sacrifice myself for hers
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
i guess, you are so sweet.
@yadavyuvi (138)
• United States
2 Mar 07
dont think about the past just carry on with the present. this is what a person does in situations like this, because only can strong hearted person takes decision like this.
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
i really have to be strong! thanks for that.
@raredog (743)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
Hmmmm difficult situation. If I were in your shoes, I think I would talk to that special person and tell him to let go, and be just special friends only. That I would continue to marry my boyfriend. I think he would understand your situation, unless you only took for granted the man you will marry.
@shebee28 (230)
• United States
2 Mar 07
If you are having feelings for someone else in any way maybe you aren't ready to marry. It wouldn't be fair to you or your boyfriend. Life is to short to not have complete happiness. Plus you really don't wanna have any regrets later on in life. Good luck to you and your decisions.
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
well, it's really difficult in my part coz i love both them in different ways... i'm confused.
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
2 Mar 07
i believe at one time some one special came into your life and you are about to marry him. so do you just drop every boyfriend when someone comes into your life that you may have feelings for? you can have special feelings for others but are they the same feelings as for the one you are about to marry, i think you should step back and really think about your feelings and i would forget about the new guy
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
that's right, i really should think about everything in me.
• India
2 Mar 07
What should we be remembered for? Let us for a moment pause to reflect what it is that for which we would like to be remembered for by future generations. Will we be remembered for how many mosques our generation has added, will we be remembered for how many temples our generation has added or will we be remembered for how many gurudwaras our generation has added? No, not at all. We will be remembered only if we give to our younger generation a prosperous and safe Nation, resulting out of economic prosperity coupled with civilisational heritage.
@no_chao (548)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
dah!!.. i cant connect..lol
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
really.. i also can't.. hahahahaha