non biological father question?

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A friend of mine has just dumped his independent girlfriend for a married woman he had a affair with four years a go because he only found out sunday he is the genuine father,but however only confirmation by her word,I recommend that he should get a DNA Test to prove it,he has only got back with her because he believes this 3 and half year old child is his,so he dumped his single career minded girlfriend four the woman who was married to another man 4yrs a go,however they are allowing this man who she claims now his her ex husband to act as daddy and still shell out maintenance money and he lost his house to her,since his immediate lawyer believed that child was the husbands so he lost his assets,I feel the two people in question who are now together are exploiting the non biological father who was her ex husband still keeps on paying out and still does not know..they say the reason they are concealing this from him is to stop him from feeling hurt and upsetting the child...however I said its better to be out in the open now so that the child can develop a proper bond with her father and the non biological one can stop being exploitated for his money etc,he has already been made homeless now this other one is moving in and giving her cash in hand,and still there is no DNA test proof and he seems gullible enough to accept it,he dumped his girlfriend for this woman for this past 4yr affair now claims that its his child...I feel the non biological father is getting exploited all the time,probably cos the woman doesnt really know who the father is and sometimes she choose one that is the wealthest that can provide her well,,,I cant understand why there is,nt a law against this exploitating men that they pretend to be the real dad in order to get money....I think DNA Testing should be compulsary at birth for both parents and baby,,so it prevents expoiltation of non biological men who are lead into a false sense of security believing the child to be theres.... Is there anything this nonbiological father can do to get back his assets and maintenance money he has paid out over 4yrs to this woman who lead him to believe that the child was his? this man does not yet know that he is,nt the genuine father.....it sounds also complicated.... at this moment this woman has not yet had a DNA test from either father and now she has got them both hanging around and one of them dumped his girlfriend for her,since he is pretty sure its his... what do you think this woman is up to?