should i let my man to go out with his friends?

Yes, But make him understand in the beginning that if he can do it so can you and get up a group of girls and family to spend time with while he is at his friends. And tell him you need to know in advance so you can shedule the same time for you and your friends.. But always make sure they are enough time for each other too.. Friends are important not as important as you should be so make sure they aren't to MANY times out with the boys..

If you can't go than he can't go. That is the way it is POINT BALNK. if you can't go with him believe me he is doing something that he got no business doing LIKE CHEATING, or going to stripp clubs.

Just let him have fun and trust him. Go out with your friends when he is out with his

It depends does he do this every night of the week? Or just now and then. If it is just once in awhile why not? What harm could it do? All couples need a break sometimes...theres times my boyfriend goes out drinking with his friends, but he always comes home and he still ahs his days with me

Yes, occasionally he should be allowed to go out with his buddies. He needs other men around him he can identify with. But he needs also to take you with him on occasion. That way you can be together and be able to do things together. But there is sometimes, a man needs his space. And there are times that you need some space. When he goes out with his friends without you, just consider it "me" time. Because quite frankly, men are pains in the butt. And Men say the same thing about women.

you should allow independence for each other in a marriage and reinforce trust.

I don't see a problem with it. No reason to keep him away from his friend and make him resent you. Why don't you find something to do while he is out with his friends? Join a club, find an online game to play or go out with yoru friends.

if he has to go alone let him go....or else go with him.

No! You should go out and have fun too!

I think you should each have your own time with your own friends, but he shouldn't go every night. Just because you two are married doesn't mean that you are always together all the time. It just means that you are sharing life with each other.

Sure, as long as you are allowed the same privileges.

aft reading all ur replies one thing am sure..u doubt ur hubby a lot..doubting ur partner is wen ur relationship s base is weak..y dont u both discuss ..u can know why he is doin this...may b 'cox u doubt him in every angle he s fed up and going out for relaxation...we all have our own space..being with ur partner 24/7 is not good..u both should have ur own life ...spend time with ur friends..come back and share ur news with him..cummunication is the 1st thing u should have in ur repaltion...communication gap means "THE END"..never try to creat communication gap with ur patner... 1st thing is u sit and share ur worries and say u r sad and need him for sometime to heal..dont go with his friend instead we both will go out n spend time..y dont u both go for a holiday for 3-4 days... anyway, speak to ur hubby and reply... am waiting for ur reply...tak care, chill out..

I agree it depends on if he's going out every night and leaving you at home, or he always goes out and never takes you anywhere. You can have a night out designated for just the two of you and every one in a while he can take you with.

I'm a man .... and i'm verry upsed to see this question here !!! a man is a free person like a woman and everybody goes out with his friends.. !!! Stupid question :D

Of course you should as l,ong as it doesn't happen every day and he comes back before the morning dawwns and you don't have to sit at home and wait on him ...Go out or meet friends yourself ... I think in a relationship people should give each other some space

Why do you have to stay home and wait on him? Go out too!!! Even if you don't have any friends that can go with you that particular night, go by yourself. Why does he have to have all the fun?

You should let him go out. you should go out too. dont let him have all the fun

yes some of the time men knead to do something with there Friend by them self don't you go out some time with your girl Friend with out him so what is the deferent of you going with out him?

I am so mixed about this.. I dont like mine going out (besides the fact were engaged and pregnant) but i hate the girls who give their man $sh!t about it too..

Are these single friends? Even though men can think for themselves they sometimes get caught up with whatever their friends are doing(Be cautious)! Find something to do when he is out, don't sit home and wait to many times,because you will start to resent him if it is a weekly routine. How often do the 2 of you go out together?