Hi girls , what, in a man, is it that attracts you most?

I like how you put the phrase, "depth of glance". That really does it for me. The outer shell is important, but I have to be able to see something behind that outer beauty. It is hard to explain, but when I looked into my boyfriend's eye for the first time, I saw a tenderness and vulnerability that I had never seen in anyone else before. It drew me to him like a moth to a flame and continues to.

To be perfectly honest, I have always had to be attracted phsically first for me to like a man- which means being at least average height for a man, not to skinny or large (right in between, not very much body hair, absolutley has to have nice teeth and a clear complexion, dresses nicely, and I also have always preferred mexican or african american men, love their color! but once I get physically attracted, the man needs to be smart, funny, and nice. I am lucky because I found all these qualities in my husband =)

I know the first thing that I look for in a man is his attitude and how he presents himself.Beauty is only skin deep so looks to me is not all that important unless of course they just don't take care of themselves then that would not be acceptable...someone who is pleasant, good sense of humor, a willingness to hold a common conversation about anything and not just sit there and space off into space...I like to be looked at when talking to someone...I like someone that is willing to venture out and try something new and not be stuck in a routine. just a couple that I would look for if I was single again.

I would have to say the first thing that attracts me is confidence. I like a man to be strong and smart. And to feel completely secure with theirselves. I like a man to know what he wants and knows how to get it. Some may even think they are cocky, but that's what i like.

if feel it is the character which is more important....even if the person is smart or goodlooking or whatever,,,, but has a bad character,,,, then it becomes a great headache

I don't care what the physicalities are, but the guy has to be smart and not be stingy with his sense of humor. That is so important.

MOST? A genuine man.

his personality towards me and others is what attracts me, if i see him nasty towards other i seem to cringe.

guys who r confident and they knw how to treat everyone well attracts me...physical and mental appearance both r needed..

For me, a mans nature is the most important thing. If he is not so good looking but is very well behaved and a decent person I really feel attracted to the person. Simplicity is what I look for the most in a man befor looks and money.

H-U-M-O-R! thats what attracts me the most. my first bf has this inate sense of humor, almost impossible not to laugh at, almost his second skin. even his most embarrassing times, he will make it like nothing, even the biggest problems. next will be wit. and physical grooming!

I think sometimes men also can be frineds with girls,and their friendship can be better than with a girl.Men can attract women but men is not the only what attract men.

well according to me a girl is mosly attracted with the trustworthyness n his physical apperance height and his sense of humour also do affect his personality

i do not usually look after physical appearances as long as he doesn't look like a frog its alright if he is...thoughtful, cares about me, impresses me, loves me, wouldn't betray me...shares my interests, accepts ME and still enjoy with what our differences are...

At first glance, the biceps, nice shape not too big, and I dont mind the odd nice looking tattoo.

I cannot really speak for girls/ladies/women in general but personally I am attracted to guys who look neat and clean. For traits I'd go for someone who is sensitive enough to know what you need. A guy who is responsible and most of all respects everybody.

At first when you are first introduced to a man, what makes me attracted to a guy is his physical aspect, his beauty, the way a man dresses up and carries himself, his height and body figure. However as you get to know the person you seem to realize that you are more attracted to his attitude and personality (humorous, intelligent, caring, thoughtful etc.) rather than his physical attributes. Therefore, i would say that it is the person's inward beauty that will make a woman fall for a man. The way they interact and feel at ease with themselves because of their personalities will make each of them get closer to each other.

I am attractive to the strong and silent types. Smart ones who are not show-offs also get my interest a lot. Guys who are funny and loud dont necessarily turn me off, I just feel like they could be good friends in a platonic kind of way. Maybe because I could be loud and talkative also. It's not really my opposite that I'm looking for, but those who could balance out my personality. Generally, guy's who could relate to women at some level ar emore attractive.

I am most attracted to a man's eyes, his smile, and his voice. Self-confidence is also something that is important to me in being attracted to a man.