I can't make up my mind, my life feels like lemons

United States
March 2, 2007 5:43pm CST
Sometimes my life feels bitter and then all of a sudden it's sweet. I can't make up my mind about my relationship and it's been this way sense December. Today I started packing up my stuff and then broke down like crazy. Then my boyfriend called (he wasn't aware of what I was doing) and I just couldn't do it it him. I want to go home so bad inside and live with my parents again. And then the next minute I can bare to leave here. How do you make decisions in your relationships? I can't go away for the weekend, which alot of people suggest. What else could I do that would help me figure this out?
2 responses
ElicBxn
@ElicBxn (63639)
• United States
3 Mar 07
Have you sat down & had a long talk with your boyfriend. What is it about the relationship that is bothering you or is it that you miss your parents (probably unlikely.) The only way to fix the problem - either way - is to be open about how you feel and how the relationship makes you feel. Lots of guys are pretty unaware that there's a problem until you slap them in the face with it. "I'm LEAVING!" "What's wrong?" is how those things will go with most guys, they just aren't programmed to notice things like that.
classy56
@classy56 (2880)
• United States
2 Mar 07
the only thing i can think of for you to do is,you an your boyfriend move closer to your mom..that way you can have both.but you need to sit down an tell your boyfriend how you feel about all of this.