how can i get many responses in mylot???

Well the answer is simple... Post something interesting that people want to discuss, then you get a lot of responses.

Its no secret , just post a discussion you think may interest others then you go and respond to your frineds discussions, and this will make them take interest and go and respond to yours. ou see its important to respond to your friends discussions tthis is what friends are for to help each other out and if you respond to theirs they will respond to yours so try it and see if this works for you. I sometimes just go and send a message to my friends and tell them I have a new discussion posted and I want them to respond to it. I hope I have been of help.

If you'll stay here long enough you will see that there is no real secret aside from posting quality discussions and timing. A look at discussions that gathered lots of responses will show that some are not that one can call quality although some are worthy. But duplicating them is no guarantee that they will gather the same number of responses. Where does this lead to? For me it's a matter of timing and having friends respond to them at an early stage before discussions are pushed down the list when newer ones come in. When it was first displayed and people responded to them, chances are that they will be displayed on the front pages and have the possibility of getting more responses. Personally I posted discussions that I believe are quality ones but did not get a response but after a few weeks, they resurfaced and by that time have responses on them. We just have to go on posting quality discussions and hope for the best.

I wish I knew the answer....hopefully other people who do know will join in this discussion and we'll both find out the answers.