Parents or GF
By sunny1984
@sunny1984 (639)
India
March 2, 2007 11:40pm CST
Friend i want to know from u.That if u have a sweet girl friend who love u a lot and she cannot live without u and u too cant live without her.But at the same time your parents ask you to get marry with any other girl (parents friends doughter,relatives etc)to whom they have commited without informing or asking you. How you will manage the situation..plz be descriptive
4 responses
@kaushikkodali (45)
• India
3 Mar 07
well dude,its bit complicated queestion.but any way i will 1st try to convincce my parents..if they accept probelm sloved,,if not also problem solved by maring the girl which my parents shows..thats all you can do..
@joby_09 (498)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
Fixed marriage isn't it? What should you do? For me, it's just simple. Do what makes you happy. Choose the person you love and you have pictured to be with for the rest of your life. Don't go for someone that you will marry out of an arrangement. I also don't believe in the saying that when you marry a person that you don't love (and was mainly due to the arrangements made by the parents), you will learn to love him/her along the way. For in loving, the heart cannot be dictated with what it should do.=) So choose the person whom you love. =)
@ravi_080888 (781)
• India
3 Mar 07
1st i introduce my girl friend to my parents.most probably my parents wont oppose my wish..i think the girl who is going to marry me would also be compelled to marry me..so i'll talk to her and her parents to compromise..thus i solve the problem and marry my girl friend or lover happily..i think no parents will think their son should not happy..they'll always think about the welfare of their son..so i'll choose my lover who is good for my parents and for me..
@3r7sweetie (937)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
I'd follow my heart. I don't want to hurt my parents, but when it comes to marriage and matters of the heart, I wouldn't let them get away with what they want. It's hard to live with someone you're not in love with, much more if you are married. Even if you have all the money and you can buy anything you want, if you live with someone you do not love, you won't be happy. It is only true love that can make a person happy. I should tell my parents that I really cannot marry the person they want me, too, and that I'd really like to marry my bf or gf instead, and that I'd fight for our love no matter what.