I want to get pregnant
By rohany1982
@rohany1982 (22)
Philippines
March 3, 2007 12:55am CST
I'm will 25 this year and I really to be pregnant. I got pregnant when I was 18 and my son is now 8 years old. We are fine and we would like to have more kids but I had 2 miscarriages and I don't know what else to do. I'm not married and got miscarriage twice from past 2 relationships. All I want is just to get pregnant. Is there something wrong about or is just my new boyfriend of 2 years unable to make me pregnant. Any suggestions?
2 responses
@waytovj (268)
• India
3 Mar 07
Well getting pregnant in your age is best because once you are over 30's then children can develop congenital deformities. It might not always be so but there is always a risk. Its good that you like having kids but I dont think what you are doin now is sane. Jus think about it. you cant jus go in and out of relations. Its your life and you need someone to be with you always. I think you need to find your perfect match before you think about more kids.
@rohany1982 (22)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
Thanks for the concern I really appreciate.
The fact that we are only 2 in the family and unlike other families who are blessed with many kids. Not that I would like to put myself to risk but I'm sure that I am pretty stable that's why I would like to have another one or two to share my joys with. I don't like to have other half in my life because its really difficult having your match who might end up go other way which would surely going to break me to pieces. lets say i'm one of those baby makers. My son understood the situation on me, i explained it to my future kids that they can always make decision for themselves since it will be their choice to have a complete family or not.
@jayanvarkala (489)
• India
6 Mar 07
In my opinion you don't get pregnant becaust firstly you had two miscarriages and the second thing is you are not legally married. If u gave birth to a child who will look after that child you are employing know? Boy friends are not take care. You marry first and then think about pregnancy
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
29 Mar 08
Miscarriages can give you problems. You have to see your OB-Gyne to discuss about getting pregnant.
Maybe you need medications to help you get pregnant.