To Know or Not Know?? That is the question!!

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I am 22 weeks pregnant... when I was 17 weeks along, I had an ultrasound. My partner and I decided that we really wanted to know if the baby is male or female, so that we would be better able to prepare for his/her arrival. We weren't able to find out... the little angel had her/his knees together. I didn't think I was going to get another ultrasound (they told me I'd probably only get one) but I was recommended for another one because there wasn't enough detail in the first. So, in five days I have another chance to learn what I am having!! Now, my partner is unsure of whether or not he wants to know. I'm starting to question it myself. On the one hand, knowing would be great because we'd be able to prepare, we could get used to thinking of this little miracle inside me as a boy or as a girl. On the other hand, it would be nice to be surprised on the big day. What would you do, if you were in this position?? Find out or not? I am not able to sleep, this is on my mind so much. It's a huge decision, I think, and I don't want to regret not finding out (or finding out) later... HELP, PLEASE!!