Commitment In Marriage
By veefortune
@veefortune (16)
Indonesia
March 3, 2007 7:38am CST
I have a plan to married 3 years ahead. but both of the parents push us to married in the short time. Now, I really enjoy my carrier, so I always think that marriage will disturb my carrier. What should I do, choose carrier or married?? Really confuse about this thing :(
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4 responses
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
You can actually have your career and your marriage intact at the same time. But you should also ask yourself what will be your priority for now. I actually have a lot of friends who was able to maintain both their career and marriage. Just make sure that you can give quality and quantity times to your marriage.
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@ThioYF (82)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 07
u must choose one of it, i think u can't focus on both. marriage will disturb your carrier, and carrier will ruin your marriage. you are 24 right now am i right? 2 or 3 years a head to married i presume that won't give you any problem. think forward what will u need next. i could give all my support as your friend :)
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
3 Mar 07
Is there a reason you are wanting to wait three years. I would not want to be pushed into marriage sooner than I am ready for it. So you have a young lady that you are seeing right now. If this is so how long have you two been together. You should sit your parents down and explain to them why you want to wait. I know things are different in some countries so was this a arranged marriage. Would the three year period also have to do with wanting to get to know the young lady. Because getting married doesn't have to interfere with your career. It just seems there more to this then the reason you gave for wanting to wait.
