Men and affairs
By robespeirre
@robespeirre (107)
United States
March 3, 2007 1:46pm CST
A man I have known for years. and once dated. was looking for me. After he had been in an explosion at work, and the hospital for a year. I was happy to see him, and know he was ok; after hearing all the bad stuff on the news. He is married. And has tried to, I think, start a relationship with me, He calls and we talk about his kid etc. we met in a group one morning for breakfast after one of those calls. I ask him why did he look me up now. I got kinda blanket response. Why would a man that I know has never had an affair before. be trying to start one now. Could it have something to do with his near death accident. or what.
2 responses
@creamywave24 (349)
• India
3 Mar 07
May be he wud have realised that u r the one his heart is always waitin for..did u ever tried to solve his problems,Do u talk to him alot about nythin n everything.Coz i have seen this kind of attitude wen a man is in pain he always look for the one with whom he spent good times...May he spent tht good time wid u......So think about it.What about his wife if he is married????
@robespeirre (107)
• United States
3 Mar 07
Yes he is married. any ideas on how to help him but not have an affair.
@creamywave24 (349)
• India
3 Mar 07
see very simple wenever u feel he is tryin to use u jus talk to him more about his wife n kids,Make him feel they are the one who can comfort him then anyone else....Its jus u who can change his thinking..try it may be it can help u
@justinefontaine (90)
• Philippines
4 Mar 07
When we are having problems in our relationship, we tend
to remember the good ones that we have and how it could
have been, if he or she is the one he chose?
But, it's just a phase, sooner or later he will go back to
his wife.
Be a friend and nothing else.
@robespeirre (107)
• United States
5 Mar 07
That is why I asking and what Im trying to do I decided to day to gather info on restoring marriages and sharing that with him. Im not a counselor but I can read and at least offer educated advise I hope it works thanks
