Control - Which is worse?

Depends on the person I guess, it's liek some people would rather not know things that won't harm them not to know and some would want to know everything. I think its worse to know as you will get frustrated if you can't stop it but I can imagine it being bad for people if they found out they were and they didn't know about it for a while.

I think that being controlled awarely is worse, because you know it's happening and aren't doing anything about it.

children getting themselves controlled without them being aware of it ...yes! it's the best thing.