Where can I find a decent gal?

@shomomo (850)
Israel
March 3, 2007 7:05pm CST
I'm tired of going in bars and checking out the women, trying to hit on a couple and realizing that they are floozies or just nasty, is there a place where I can find decent women who want something a bit more meaningful than a fling?
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4 responses
danishcanadian
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
4 Mar 07
When I wanted to find the right guy I just "took myself off of the market." I didn't give a darn, I didn't even bother. He just happened to walk into my life one day. We were friends first, and we fell in love from there.
shomomo
@shomomo (850)
• Israel
6 Mar 07
It's still not the same for women, you get hit on. even in the 21st century women barely hit on men so it is harder for men with less confidence to approach a woman.
APasserBy
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
4 Mar 07
Are you serious? a decent girl in a bar? Over here they said youcan't find a decent girl in a bar. They go in decent but don't go out as such. Anyway, don't give up looking. Try different places, maybe some coffee shops or malls. Good luck!
shomomo
@shomomo (850)
• Israel
6 Mar 07
It's a bit weird talking to girls in coffee shops or malls just like that, saying "hi, how are you? my name is...", in a bar it's more common and thus less strange... in conclusion: I lack the confidence to do so.
Zo0mZo0m
@Zo0mZo0m (1357)
• United States
4 Mar 07
Have you considered church, the library, the park, a coffee house? H'm.... How about the museum if your looking for an intellectual perhaps. Or even the grocery store. I would never go to club to pick up a man that's just asking for touble. A club is a "meat market". All the wrong possibilities are in the club. Low lifes and scum and what have you. Clubs are off limits for me. No thanks!
easy888
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
4 Mar 07
If you really want to find some decent girls ,you may try to go to take part in some charity or volunteer work , after few times ,I am sure you may make friends with some of them and you can then start thinking who you would like to build up a relationship with. Or try to find one in your workplace to see there are any... I believe the right one is right there waiting for you.
shomomo
@shomomo (850)
• Israel
6 Mar 07
I really don't think that she is waiting for me - she's probably in a relationship unlike me.