feelings and emotions better left upon the shelf.
By itsjustmeb
@itsjustmeb (1212)
Canada
March 3, 2007 11:31pm CST
I did a tad bit of self cleansing tonight.
What I did was I removed a few people from my Myspace list. I also thought to myself I am tired of having to chase my family for affection. I am tired of being the one labelled because they can't handle me for who I am or who I have become. Sure I don't own my own home yet, and no I have never been married. But love proves all.
So for now, I am going to keep my convictions to myself. I am going to distance myself from those who continue to judge. I am going to keep contact with those who do show affection and those who haven't pushed me aside in their life.
So yeah. This is what I plan on doing. If people get hurt by it, well there isn't anything I can do about this. I need to do this FOR ME. For my kids. For my life.
3 responses
@MNIrishAngel (23)
• United States
4 Mar 07
You are on the right path!!!
If you want positivity in YOUR life, surround yourself with positive people. BE HAPPY and you will attract happy people. It's the Law of Attraction and it works 100% of the time!!!!
Treat people AS IF they are already behaving the way you want them to be!!!! With my ex-husband, I found that everyone is happier (especially our daughter) when I approach him as if he has already agreed to MY point of view. Try it -- it's AMAZING how well it can work for you!!!
Think about calling customer service for a large company. Be compassionate & you receive compassion. Same thing in life.
One HUGE problem in our society is that we equate kindness with being a doormat. Not true!!!! The more kind I am, the more kindness I attract in life!
You are on the right path....be strong & be positive and you will have EVERYTHING you wish for!
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@itsjustmeb (1212)
• Canada
4 Mar 07
LOL thats too funny because I work in customer service, as a Tier 2 tech, and I am always wanting to make someone happy :D
@stormygrl (761)
• United States
4 Mar 07
Your kids should always be first. Why is it the people closest to you who are supposed to love you as you are are the worst at supporting you and judge harshly without being given a chance ??? Good Luck!
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
4 Mar 07
I am going through something similar with my mother. I am about to take a really big step in my life, but I am not about to tell her about it now, because no matter what I do, there is a problem, or she finds something to worry about. I just don't tell her anything, until I've done it and succeeded. If I don't succeed in what I have planned to do, I have a backup plan to hide my mistake so that she will never find out.
A couple of weeks ago I flew to Phoenix, and didn't tell anyone. I just packed up and left for two weeks, and called them all when I got there.
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