Long Distance Relationship...do you have faith on it?

@senses (840)
Philippines
March 4, 2007 10:56am CST
I have friend swho are away from each other, yet, they are still in love with each other. They promised to lov eeach other faithfully although they are away from each other. What can you say about this relationship? Do you think long distance relationship works?
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@nairdaleo (104)
• Mexico
4 Mar 07
I believe a long distance relationship is the most difficult kind of relationship. The way to make it work though, is to have the existing promise that you'll be together, when that fades, all faith in the long distance love fades as well, no matter how strongly they feel for each other. I think they work, but they are very difficult and there's a lot to endure, but I feel there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. I've been myself in it 3 times, haha, I know, after the first one I should've stopped, but I like being able to talk to a mind instead of being judged first for looks; regardless of what they think about my looks. In resume I do think they work, but it is not as easy as just talking and being happy, all of your working senses must be involved in a relationship or it is bound to disappear. That's what I've learned. And it isn't a senseless thought to want to be together with that person that has attracted you so much. But... endure this test, and you'll have a very beautiful love.
@senses (840)
• Philippines
4 Mar 07
I agree iwth you. Long distance relationship is the most difficult kind of relatioship. I believed also that this is somewhat a test wether you really love each other. I highly appreciate those whocould stand to this somewhat called test.
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• Romania
5 Mar 07
that depends on them if they love each other i believe that the distance is not important, i have a friend who's girlfriend has gone into another country and they still love each other so i don't thing that the distance counts. the next year they will get married so if there is love you will find your way through any obstacles
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@senses (840)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
You are right, true love conquers all. Whatever obstacles you will win all the challenges for as long as you truly love each other.
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@20031969 (932)
• India
14 Mar 07
it depends how much trust and respect to each other otherwise it is not possible for each other.
14 Mar 07
I strongly agree with you!
• United States
6 Mar 07
I have faith on it. I've had one before and I've remained faithful all throughout. For some people it can work but ofcourse eventually you'll have to have a plan to be together all the time.
• India
5 Mar 07
yes i strongly do believe in long distance relationships... infact i myself am in a long distance relationship...... my boyfriend is thousands of kms away from me but i love him more than anything in this world..... n he.....i know he loves me more than i do...... the fate of long distance relationships infact depend upon the compatibility of the perons indulged in relation n there mutual understanding........ if those 2 persons are faithful to each other n believe each other then the relationship can be very long lasting but if there is no mutual understanding n believe then its very hard to continue that relation.......
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@hessyen (176)
• Romania
6 Mar 07
i think that long distance relationships work but just for i little bit of time. the two loers are separated by distance they rarely see just talk and the phone.soo they make new friends and every day meet new people . soo you make the connection. i think this relationships are wrong and they are based on lies
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@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
based from my experience, long distance relationship does't and will never work.
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
my special someone and i are on an LDR relationship. we try to make it a point to talk like thrice a week so that it would not be expensive for both of us. usually, give and take to attain balance. it would depend on the people involved in the relationship because if you want to make it work, there'll be a thousand reasons to make it work and a thousand reason if you don't want it to work. kind of absurd sometimes because nothing beats the actual relationship but you'll soon get there. as long as you trust your partner and honesty is part of the ingredients of your relationship as well as love, then i think you can make it work. =) i'm crossing my fingers on my relationship now. LOL
@senses (840)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
Good luck then for you LDR. i know if you have faith on each other you will both be successful. Just have trust on each other. Of course, keep up the commucaction, emial or just a simple text or call everyday!
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@kuaishow (37)
• Malaysia
14 Mar 07
For me, a long distance relationship is really hard to keep its quality. Although the technology today is advanced that u can keep in touch by phone, sms, etc. But without face to face conversation, there was just like a gap exist.
14 Mar 07
Yes, I believe on long distance relationship. I still have faith on it. I wanted to believe that we can be romantic!