Loving .. faithful ....yet hateful to a certain extent ...WHY ???????

I dont think you can say it is the order of the present day at all. Everyone is different. I do beleive women are more independant now than they used to be in the past but that doesnt mean they cannot have a happy marriage - by happy marriage I mean that both of you are happy. Sounds to me like you need to have a serious discussion with your wife. If you continue the way you are it will only build up inside you and you will come to resent every little thing she says and does. Talk to her and try to sort things out before its too late

I've been with my wife for 25 years and there have been times when she's taken me for granted, and the odd occasion when I've taken her for granted. It's quite unpleasant - my wife works harder at not doing it now, because she realsied that she was causing me quite a bit of pain, and at one time it got so bad that I almost left her. However, we've stuck it out and worked hard on things, and we're now much better at NOT taking each other for granted, and making sure that each feels that the other is loved and respected. It's not easy, but all I'd say is that most relationships go through times like this.

What kind of inner waves lead you is important; when it comes to love, family, responsibility and faithfull behaviour! If there is a tendency of give and take, or take and give, then there would be an error of human element and individual nature! If one has followed by his or her own understanding and followed love and care with heartiest aproach then there will be gains directly and in different forms! But if you are not aware about then you will have question like this IS IT THE ORDER OF THE PRESENT DAY? And yea, one must decide that when ever it comes to provide, love is the best thing without failure because it is a complete unit in itself! When you give you are filled with love ... And that's the real thing!

yes i am not getting what i expect from my wife & children because they are rather physical & lokok at each aspect in the form of utility,dignity, social status,my economical condition, my usefullness & what i can give them. i am too poor to fulfill their needs.they are not emtionally attache with me. i cant tell them to love me!