Im in love with an 18 year girl what shall i do

India
October 16, 2006 12:40am CST
im 19 and i fell in love with my classmate.she is muslim and i dont think that her family members would allow us to marry so we decided to separate but couldnt what shall we do
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17 responses
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
18 Oct 06
You dont think. That is you are not sure and you have not tried. Is that so? Dont give up thinking that you'd fail. Fight for what you want and for your love. If you give up, your love is not as strong as you think. Good luck.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
18 Oct 06
You are welcome son. Have a little faith. You'd be surprised.
• India
18 Oct 06
thanks for ur reply really u have increased my guts a 100 times thank u very much
@AMIR_AK (594)
• India
17 Oct 06
you should not do any think only marriage with her after marriage send me your and his photo to me
• India
18 Oct 06
thanks for ur reply i will if it happened
@simmer (70)
• South Africa
17 Oct 06
You are both really young to get married!How long have you known each other?I think you should keep tryin to be together no matter what!Keep trying to get her parents to understand!You will never forget the person you love!You cant choose who you love!I would definately not get married tho!You have ur whole lives to do that!
@pormadi (1300)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 06
By love, you will win... being in love you can do anything...right?
• India
18 Oct 06
thanks a lot for the reply
• India
17 Oct 06
do wat u like
• India
18 Oct 06
how could u be so rude u dont understand my situation
@britishyip (1609)
• India
17 Oct 06
have faith on ur Love.. you'll win one day.. but as u r in india.. i suggest you to concentrate on your studies and be someone.. so that u can manage living alone.. gettin my point.. its simple suggestion.. decision is always urs..
• India
18 Oct 06
thanks for ur kind advice i think it will help me
@janey84 (546)
• Australia
18 Oct 06
if she's muslim what are u then? Christian? Hinduism? Buddhist? I totally knew how you feel coz that was my friend's problem. She's muslim but then her boyfriend is chinese. The only solution to this was that her boyfriend actually thought of convertion to muslim.But by doing that, he had to lose his family coz his family was not only anti-malay but also anti-muslim. So what happened in the end? They had to separated peacefully and painfully. That did not mean that the guy did not love the gal enough. To this date, they still contacted each other!! But they knew which had to come first.This is not some kind of movie where you wanna become prince charming or hero, but to know of your priority. You need to know what needs to come first. since you guys are still teenagers, y not pay attention to studies first. Whenyou get mature, n u still loves her, maybe you can thought of conversion or thinking other plans right discussing with your parents or her parents. When they see that you guys are mature already , I'm sure they'll think differently. So y rush now??
• India
18 Oct 06
thank u sooooo much u its very kind of u that u sit so long to type this much matter for me i will do exactly as u said thank u very very much i wont forget ur name
• Nigeria
18 Oct 06
Hi guy, for you to fall in love with a 18 year old girl is nt the problem, but yur inability to stick to her even when you think that it will not work between you too, simply becos she is a muslim. That means your love is not strong towards her! go for love not criticism guy! For the meantime, visit my newest site www.mymusicbox.net
• United States
16 Oct 06
Why they wont allow you to marry to her? You stop seeing her just because of that? If you can do that, you didnt love her that much. I wouldnt leave my partner no matter what.
• India
17 Oct 06
its not that simple her father and mother are of old thinking they just wont allow her to meet me and would do anything to prevent her from marrying a hindu guy
@spikyarj (519)
• India
18 Oct 06
dont think this is the right age to be in love....ask yourself are you ready to do anything for your lover ..!!!! if yes then its better to keep a low profile for the time being..wait till you are earning..then go and ask her parents..
@ahmar2 (682)
• Pakistan
18 Oct 06
Its simple you also become muslim and marry her..
• India
18 Oct 06
First complete ur studies and settle in your life. Then you can ask her parents, then they may agree.
@Schubler (1525)
• Romania
18 Oct 06
Love is love... the heart doen`t know religion, habits, shapes, or any of this kind of stuff.. always follow your heart or you`ll regret not doing so one day...
@tvnaresh (1581)
• India
17 Oct 06
If you both really love each other...dont care about their parents...
• India
18 Oct 06
but i dont want any thing that would hurt her or her family
• India
18 Oct 06
If ur in real love u will find it very difficult to cope up with this separation.Many times the so called love people encounter during this age is simply just a crush, or infatuation.so just think about it.
@i_agree_but (1183)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Oct 06
Enjoy until they separate you permanetly. Even though I don’t have enough experience in this matter, I would like to answer this question, because this question looks better than any other questions . There are hundreds of meaningless questions expecting our suggestions and comments over that issue.
@AMIR_AK (594)
• India
17 Oct 06
you are write my friend I am trying to best in future thanks for sending your imp messege
• India
17 Oct 06
Hey if you can't get her with cool talks go the harsh way,Runaway marriage is what is waiting for you.If you love her so much try to talk to her parents(hope they are educated) and make them understand your love for each other and you both can't live without each other and if she gets married to other person 3 lives will be destroyed sue to them(parents).