Have you moved really far away from home--from all your friends and family?
By DesignDiva
@DesignDiva (379)
United States
March 4, 2007 6:57pm CST
How far away have you moved from your family and friends? All of my friends stayed in the same town or moved a few hours away. I moved about 3,000 miles away from all of my friends and family and moved to a city where I didn't know anyone.
I've been here a few years and have made a lot of friends, but sometimes I wonder if I made the right decision. I have a great job and love a lot of things about my life here, but I hate being so far away from the people I love the most.
Have any of you moved far away? Are you glad you did? Did you end up moving back home?
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6 responses
@trouble4u2avoid (2915)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I moved from NJ to Florida 14 years ago. According to mapquest it is 1108.30 miles from my address to my closest relative. Some of my family has visited me here, but it's been a long time since I have seen everyone all togwether. I really miss them. I have my inlaws here and I have made some really good friends but the last year has been tough for me with my son's accident and martial problems. I think being closer to my family would have made my life a little sless stressful. Sometimes..you just need family.
@DesignDiva (379)
• United States
24 Mar 07
I couldn't agree with you more. I hope things get easier for you soon.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I did it for over 35 years and am still 500 miles frommy mom but have daughter around my hubby was a lineman and we went from job to job I told him and kids each time we moved was a new llife for us we made new friends I have them all over the USA
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@DesignDiva (379)
• United States
24 Mar 07
What a positive way to look at things! Rather than focusing on those you left behind, you focus on all the additional friends you've met because of the moves. Whenever I have a lonely day, I'll remember that and try to be as optimistic as you are!
@beckyjgb (67)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I moved from Puerto Rico to Pennsylvania for a job. I left all my family and friends behind and moved to a place where I didn't know anyone. It was a really tough decision. I have a little sister that is very attached to me, so the most heartbreaking thing about leaving was saying good-bye to her.
I think back sometimes and wonder what my life would be like if I had decided to stay at home. I miss my friends and family a lot and sometimes I feel somewhat guilty for leaving them behind.
I've made some friends here, but it mostly people that I work with. I go home for a week about once every six months. I'm pretty sure I will go back eventually, but it will be a while. Even though I feel guilty and sad at times, I needed to do this for me.
@DesignDiva (379)
• United States
25 Mar 07
I know exactly what you mean about feeling guilty and sad. My family is always begging me to come back. They're the people I care the most about, so sometimes I wonder why I'm not living closer to them. It's hard to figure out the right course for your life...
@winky73 (1404)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I moved from Germany to the U.S. and I'm not always happy that I did.It really sucks being that far away from your family...especialy during the holidays.....but it's not bad enough for me to move back home.I do get to visit....just not as often as I would like.
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@mystic_0318 (937)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I moved about 8 hrs away from home. Yes I am gald I moved away.this isn't the first time I've moved away. The first time I ended up moving back home after about a year. But, you wont ever see me moving back home this time. I love it where I am and I hated it back home.
@princeworthy (1909)
• United States
13 Mar 07
My husband and I moved over 800 miles away from all of our friends and family about 3 years ago. I really miss my mother alot, she was the one that I turned to for everything. If I need to talk, if I need help with my bills, if I was sick, etc.. Moving away from her has forced me to grow up and take responsibility for my own life. I have started attending college, and no longer rely on my mother to help us with our bills. I don't think about moving back anymore. I would love it if she came to visit me though and if she brought my brand new nephew with her.
@DesignDiva (379)
• United States
24 Mar 07
My mom's my best friend too. Even though I moved 2,000 miles away, I still talk to her at least once a day. Sometimes several times! I don't know how people made it without cell phones--long distance bills would have killed me!
But I agree with you, moving away definitely made me grow up and learn to rely on myself. I think that might have subconsciously been why I did it.