why life is sometimes unfair?
By clarah_cille
@clarah_cille (654)
Philippines
March 4, 2007 10:57pm CST
life is not always great...well, most of us would always say that that's LIFE..we undergone a lot of circumstances where sometimes we questions why it had to happened, why us and if we can handle the situation. life is really unpredictable. a lot of possibilities would really happen. everything is possible and it would not choose a person to be in the situation. it depends upon us on how to deal with it and learned our lessons from it. we just have to be strong and believe our selves. it maybe complicated, horrible, distressful,and whatsoever. the most important thing is that we learned from it and the lessons that it brings.
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4 responses
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I think of life as a series of tests. Think about it...we are always tested and then we go through a reaction. That reaction can either keep us stuck there or we learn from that test and move forward. When we get stuck, the same test seems to happen more than once, until we learn from the experience and move on to the next one.
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Sorry, after I hit send and reread it, it was a bit redundant.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
I guess we sometimes have to suffer from unfairness, to see and learn that we are more blessed than the others. For us to realize that we have to do something to those who are in need, by that we would be able to appreciate others more rather than just our selves.
We are not here to enjoy life, we are here to share it with others. To be an inspiration for them, for others to also stand up and believe in life.
So if you feel that life is being unfair to you, just turn around and look for those people who are around you. There you will learn from them, and them to you..
@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
i guess your right. being into some problems would sometimes mislead us. we sometimes think that we are so unlucky. but we never realized that there are some who suffered more than what we have experienced right now. maybe we should be thankful for all the blessings that the one above gave to us....the good health, family and friends.
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@Limey73 (161)
• Canada
5 Mar 07
Agreed, life is not always fair - but I also know that sometimes I exaggerate in my mind how bad things are, and start feeling sorry for myself. At such times I try to tell myself that it's not so much what happens as how I deal with what happens that matters.........Doesn't always work, but when it does, I often see that what seemed to be a mountain was just a molehill after all.
Yeah, life's a b*tch sometimes, but we have to dust ourselves off, and move on, don't we? Good post, have a positive + !
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
yeah, we just have to go with the daily flow of our lives and move on. learn things that life gives and be a better person or a mature one.
@arunkumar_cool (92)
• India
5 Mar 07
lot of confussion make all the time unfair
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