Its my BIRTHDAY tommorrow----- Gonna be the Worst???????
@HumsafarMandeep (691)
March 5, 2007 7:30am CST
yes friends, i know it may sound absurd but its true. It's my birthday tommorow the 6th of march. But i know its gonna be the worst ever birthday for me.
I m living in UK, alone, and all my family and friends are in INDIA.
And as i dont have good friends here, i have not told to anyone that it is my birthday and i m feeling so bad for it.
I used to get 1000s of wishes at home, from family, friends, mates,and everyone but this year here i dont have friends to wish me, i dont have mates to celebrate with, i m so depressed.
What shall i do to overcome this depression,if birthday, the so very important day of life si gonna be like this,i dont know how will i manage with my life here in UK.
Shall i tell my collegues and country men here that its my birthday and celebrate with them, or shall i just sit inside the walls of my room and miss home.????
I m so confused,,,,,,,,,
very sad for me..........
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@gharinder (2044)
• India
5 Mar 07
yes i agree, you will definitely miss your family on your birthday, anyway u are not alone, mylot too is a big family, and i am sure though not face to face, u will definitely receive a lot of good wishes for your birthday, i am saying you in advance:MANY MANY HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY
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@HumsafarMandeep (691)
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5 Mar 07
thnks for ur wishes frnd,,i m feeling much better now.
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@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
hi happy bday to you!!
No it is not consider worst because you are alone pick up the phone and call them and go to the place of worship to thanks the creator for giving you 1 another year to spend and thanks all the blessing no matter how big or small it was.
I guess someone should know that it is you're bday for it is nice to celebrate your special day with new found friends and enjoy the day.
again a blessful day on your natal day!!!
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@MarkyB21 (1545)
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5 Mar 07
If you're close to any friends over here, let them know and celebrate with them. If you don't have any close friends here make it your goal to make some before next year. Other than that call home and talk to some friends / family and let them know you miss them.
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@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I would tell your friends there that it is your birthday and yes celebrate with them! I know it is hard being away from you homeland for I am away from my family also. Hey it's my moms birthday tomorow too...so here's a little cake for you! Happy (early) Birthday and many more!
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@HumsafarMandeep (691)
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5 Mar 07
thnks for ur wishes frnd,,i m feeling much better now.
AND Many happy wishes for ur mom also....
God bless u al
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@Bangalorean (1282)
• India
6 Mar 07
Dont worry cheerup pal, make new friends, share your happy moments with them( as this event is of joy, I am sure many would never reject to join u in the celebration).
You missing your parents is totally unreplacebale, but friends surely can be made new. The world has many good people scattered around everywhere.
So just Chill and have a great Birthday. God Bless
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@egfitz62150 (645)
• United States
5 Mar 07
By all means tell your co-workers and any acquaintances you've made so far. Most of them know you are alone there and would welcome a chance to celebrate with you! I think you are very brave for living so far from home and family, too!
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@beaniegdi (1964)
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6 Mar 07
Happy birthday. i think you should tell people it is your birthday as that is something to celebrate that could make you a bit closer to the people you know here. Still have a little celebration here and try to contact your friends and family in India.
@ashley_sahni1977 (379)
• India
6 Mar 07
first of all be lated wishes for ur birth day indian time but very much in ime at uk to say happy birthday budi.listen i wont be able to fill in what you are feeling cos of being alone thier far away from family and friends but i can atleast try to reduce that by telling you that you got many a friends on this electronic media who are trying to fill that gap as much it can. so cheer up and keep smiling
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@sumeet_kuwait (46)
• Kuwait
5 Mar 07
First of all A BIG hug to my friend on here b'day and herez the buch of roses for u...
hey u sound so much like me, even my family is back in India and I'm generally alone on my Bday's, but now don't be sad,...i'm sure , here at mylot u will find zillions of friends..... blessing u and greeting u...if u still feel lonely....just call me:)
CHEERS!!!
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@jayanvarkala (489)
• India
6 Mar 07
Many Many Happy retuns of the day. I think this b'day will be one of the special one in your life b'coz 49 unknown people greeted(including me)you through my lot.
@xfactordesigns (6)
• South Africa
6 Mar 07
Hi there. I know it must be tough to be alone. I have friends that came back from the UK last year after being there for a while. If it will make u feel any better, I will think of you tomorrow. I you go on http://www.highveld.co.za and listen via streaming audio, I will see if I can get a song dedicated to you for your birthday.
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@miyounus (35)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 07
I think u should celeberate your birthday with your collegues and friends if any at UK. It'll certainly help you out in patting your home sickness but do remember that you also remain in contact with your family. They will also be wishing you ur janam din through any possible means.
by the way wishing you alot on birthday........ :)
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@stephensrm (2)
• India
6 Mar 07
do u honestly believe that your alone in your birthday.
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