what do you do when you find out the horrible truth?
By desimanero
@desimanero (419)
United States
March 5, 2007 8:47am CST
What would you do if you were with a person for many years(in my case 7 yrs)And throughout the relationship you became very close.You share everything with eachother,he/she make syou think youre the only one for them.But then all of sudden you find out so many things about that person that you didnt think could be.Like i found out my now ex is really a pathalogical liar,a cheater and everything else a dog is.It hurts.We have a kid together and he made it seem like it was special to him and he wanted to have more with me.But i just found out some girl is 2 months pregnant from him.I also found out thathe would lie to other girls and say he wasnt with me and that i wont leave him alone which is so far from th etruth.What would you do if you found out your whole relationship was nothing but lies and deception?
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I'm so sorry you've been hurt my friend. Seven years is a long time to share your life with someone then find out something like this. From another of your post, I think you may have subconsiously been aware that there was a problem brewing. I know you are feeling very hurt and betrayed at the moment, but it will do you good to get out any of your anger over this relationship. Get it out of your system now (here with us) because with a child together, you will need to at least be civil to each other in future. With such an untrustworthy b/f, Do Not do anything that will cause your dream (or nightmare) to coming true. Best of luck in what ever you decide to do. You will be in my thoughts :)
@desimanero (419)
• United States
9 Mar 07
thank you.yes talking on these websites really does help.im getting use to the fact that its really over and its not my fault.he still calls once and a while trying to get me to give in but i told him straight up...."i thank hin for what he did to me cuz he gave me back the one thing i needed...self respect.and he made me a stronger person".
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
24 Mar 07
Sounds like you have gained some very valuable things from this relationship. :)
@desimanero (419)
• United States
29 Mar 07
thanks fgor responding.The post is about a month old so im looking at things differntly now.I mean i miss and love this guy but i know hes no good for me so im moving on.I havent spoken to him in about a month and i dont plan on speaking to him.Matter fact i got a restraining order on him.
@reykja (121)
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5 Mar 07
A big slap in his face and I'll make sure that he regrets all that he did.
I'm sorry about what happened with you, he is just a loser who can't be confident unless he knows that lots of women want him. Good thing that you found out, it must hurt a lot but now at least you know that you won't be wasting your time on someone like that anymore.
