All About Relationship
By joshal
@joshal (22)
United States
March 5, 2007 9:08am CST
Hi Dear Friends,
I have been waiting for a very long time to get an answer for my question. I am a women from India and recently married. My husband is wonderful and my life is happy by god's grace but I have a lot of problem from my in-laws. First I never thought of avoiding them but now I try to separate my husband from them .I know its not good I feel awkward myself to say this . You know they are irritating me so much and my husband's knows that yet he is afraid to talk to his mother.
Now my question is,Why a women can't let go of her son as they let go of their daughters in marriage. Even my mother-in-law must have been a daughter-in-law once right then why isn't she good to me? I don't want her to be good to me but at least she shouldn't come between me and my husband right?
* I am waiting for a reply from a man as if what does go through their mind when they see their mother ill treats the women they love
* I like to hear from, mother-in-law around the world, Why do you people do that?
* I like to hear from from all the women about what their life experience and steps they took to overcome it.
Please do reply to me
Thank you for your time.
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@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
5 Mar 07
'll speak as a daughter-in-law .Me and y husband we are from different countries with different culture.I'm from Greece and he is from Egypt.Te first time I travel to see my in laws I was already married and waiting the worse.First because of me they lose them son,I mean he stay at my country and let there him job (he is lawyer,but not now)and second we have different religion.What I found there?A lovely family and a open hug.Since then, 12 years ago I travel as much I can for see them,I live with them almost 2 months at the year ,in them home and sometimes without even my husband there.They are all perfect.My mother in law she adore me ,never confuse between me and my husband and when need to say her opinion she always take my site.That's my personal experience,I wish the things was same for you too.You must speak with your husband and find an answer together