what should i tell my friend?

@eminyone (113)
United States
March 5, 2007 2:35pm CST
i have a friend and shes a single mother. she cant find love ( because she looks in the wrong places!!) she is always acking me why she cant find no one. i have tried to tell her that she likes the wrong kind of guys. she goes for looks and the ones she picks are not that cute. she goes for the bad boy type that is ok i like them too. her babys dad is a crack head and he has nothing to do with her or the baby, one guy beat her , one guy was only 16, the other was an alcoholic. none of them worked. she has guys that want her but she dont want them because she says there ugly. they do anything for her but she doesnt want them. now htey dropped her and now she has noone. i dont know how to explain it to her that guys she picks just use her and then leave. i dont know how to help her. anyoone got any ideas?
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skyblade
@skyblade (482)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I think the bigger problem is her learning how to love herself, alone. You can't ever feel good in a relationship if you can't be by yourself. She doesn't need a guy, she needs a positive self esteem.
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eminyone
@eminyone (113)
• United States
5 Mar 07
yea i told her that
kleo_23
@kleo_23 (104)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
i agree w/ you skyblade. it is very important for a person to love herself and know her real value as a person so that she gain respect from other people and thus have better chances of finding lasting relationship in the end.
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eminyone
@eminyone (113)
• United States
7 Mar 07
i know i told her to take time between men and find out what she really wants for herself.