Can my love for this girl work? will she ever love me

Nigeria
March 5, 2007 4:04pm CST
hi guy I want you to tell me if I can be able to settle together with the only girl I love we met in the office were am working and I employed her as one of our staff. but then, I did not feel any thing for her, but she was very good to me, she is young at 19 and am 22. Before I know it, I became so attached to her within a little moment, I fell in love with her. but the moment I let her know of my good intension OF LOVING HER and THAT I WANT a genue Relationship with her, she sligtly changed, she started giving me heart breaks, she did not want to tell me whether my request is granted or not. Before i know it she let the Job with my concent. i tried to wave her of my memories but i alway find her there, because she is of good manner, humble, respectiful etc. sometimes if I try to let her know how much I love her, her reponse will be I hope your mind is in what you are saying. but she will not put any concern in it I dont know how to make this girl mine, I though I havent try much, she doesnt collect gift from guys and even me, something she claim to be a church girl. that she dont want any body to corrupt her. I DONT WANT TO CORRUPT HER, I really love her the way I have never love any girl. Please tell me what to do to win her love. Did you think that she can love me the way I love her, I have rejected other girls since i found her. I want to know how possible this can be
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maryannemax
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
5 Mar 07
i say if you really love her, then keep some more patience, try to pursue some more and make her feel how important she is to you. it would not be that easy since she won't allow you to, right? but atleast try to find more ways to get her attention. like send her flowers or send her cards. i think she will accept those since such things aren't that expensive but will really warm her heart. but do learn where to draw the line. don't expect too much nor wait for a lifetime. i know you are inlove but try to love yourself, too. if you feel like she won't really love you back, you owe yourself to be free from her. it will be difficult...rejection is always painful. but in due time, wounds even the heart has will heal after sometime. as for now, keep your hopes high. but as i've said, don't give 100% positive expectections from her. good luck and have a nice day.