Does anyone know any good love spells?
By barbarella
@barbarella (354)
March 5, 2007 5:01pm CST
My boyfriend and I have split up because he says there isn't enough 'spark' so I need something which will make me more attractive to him. He is also a bit commitment-shy so something which will keep him there too. I know its not the ideal solution but its a last resort.
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@livewyre (2450)
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7 Mar 07
Sorry, I know, I've gone too far....Truly sorry to hear that it didn't work out, but come on, you're worth more than some blokes unconditional indifference. I know it's alright for me blah blah...but you know it wasn't right??
You are intelligent and witty and he should be so lucky!
@rowantree (1186)
• United States
3 Apr 07
Are you Pagan? Wiccan? Or are you just another Christian who is upset with how his or her life is going and decided "well I'll just have someone give me a spell"?
Pagans do not live their lives this way. We take responsibility. A love spell doesn't name an individual. It asks for love to come into your life. Then that person follows through with that spell, making sure that their behavior or their actions isn't what's turning others away.
If your bf is saying there isn't enough "spark", I'd let him go. Think about this - do you want to be with someone who doesn't feel the chemistry? You deserve better. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who feels that "wow factor" just as much as you do. And when you find that person, you'll know & you'll realize that from that point on, you could never settle for anything less. And don't!
@barbarella (354)
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13 Apr 07
I have found the right one, he just doesn't realize it yet! Just another Christian? Seems like a funny kind of Christian who would resort to spells rather than prayer. No, I am none of the above. The type of magic I am generally interested in is of the Golden Dawn/Rosicrucian type. It is quite different to Wicca so doesn't use spells which is why I asked. I am quite sure Pagans don't live their lives this way as a Pagan is a non-believer by definition. Basically, in common use it refers to anyone who isn't a Christian so you are perhaps not in a position to speak for the entire secular world. I was simply asking for a spell from a Wiccan. I don't know that much about Wicca but the way I see it is that any spell or ritual is simply a psychological device to focus intention and your subconscious does the rest because it then believes that what has been asked for will occur. If I thought that the man that I am in love with would be going against his free will in any way or under an influence outside of his control then of course that would be unethical but using symbolism to alter ones belief system and in turn one's behaviour puts no more influence on others than a persuasive argument.
With the 'spark' thing, I think it is less about chemistry than weight! He was being nice. He hasn't actually put it that way but he just doesn't find my body very attractive, he likes skinny girls. Everything else is there though. Thank you for the advice though and to everyone for their suggestions.
@rowantree (1186)
• United States
3 Apr 07
P.S.
Carry a rose quartz with you. Not only will it draw loving feelings towards you, but you'll feel loving feelings towards yourself, which is much more important at this point.
If you do perform a love spell...
I don't know if you are Christian, Pagan, Jewish - it doesn't matter. Ask your deity, whoever you believe in, to help you find the love that is meant for you. Then let everyone know you're available - but in the meantime, do things that make you happy. And let us know once you've found your guy!
@hroptr (13)
• Canada
20 May 07
Okay if "he doesn't know it yet" the he isn't the right one. Spells are meant to help draw the desired effect not force the issue. These spells as I said earlier are dangerous and really do go against the rede " Do as you will harm none" to force someone into any relationship is wrong and causes harm. So think about this do you really want that to come back on you 3 fold. The spell I mentioned earlier isn't a "love spell" but more of a spell to help discover the intendeds interest.
Be careful you are at risk of having a very large negative karma bill of you force this issue. Let your intended figure this out for themselves.
As a practicing pagan I can honestly say that every other pagan I have talked to about this kind of spell has said "DON'T DO IT"
@hroptr (13)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
Those kinds of spell are very dangerous. First you would have to spend the rest of your time making sure that it is constantly refreshed.Maybe you should try a spell that will help you find your true mate. But there is the apple spell.
Pick an apple on a fullmoon while washing the apple constantly say who you want to love you as you rub the apple with lavender and rose oil, then wash it off in rain water. Present the apple to your intended. And good luck.
@010878 (303)
• Indonesia
11 May 07
I've cast many spells before but one thing I don't want to cast is love spells because I learned the hard way the effects of love spells. To me love spells is human manipulation towards other human so it's definitely against wiccan rede. But if you still insist going on about Love Spells then you should check out my profile and see Discussions I've Started. It's pretty powerful spell and use it with your own consequences :)
If you tell me your birthday and his birthday, perhaps I could help you using Astrology and Numerology on how to approach him :) That if you still interested.
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
15 Aug 11
This discussion is five years old. Hopefully you guys worked things out or you heal by now. Every human being has something call free will. I don't think you are Wiccan if you were you will know that we don't mess with other peoples free will. Magik to some is a joke, but is very real and a spell love is the worst thing you can do to make a relationship work.
@Capndon (337)
• India
19 Mar 07
Honey don't give him something that is not true or not going to last. Just be yourself & that's what he is going to get if he gets committed in the future. Give him time to commit. He probably has a lot more on his mind right now & does not want to settle down with responsibilities. Talk to him straight & ask him whats the real thing. Is he trying to keep you as a part time activity or a full time responsibility. He should come clean & that's all you need to plan your next step. Rather than ACT as someone you are not I would advise you to be yourself. That way he gets what he knows & if that's not what he wants both of you won't have a sour taste in your mouth when you know.
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I must say, I was going to shy away from this post, but here I am responding anyway. Love spells, especially when it comes to specific people, just aren't a great idea. You're going against someone else's free will here. Love spells, especially when used to bring in a certain person, only make the relationship more fragile. Sometimes they become violent and obsessive. It can only get worse.
Instead, do a spell thats more general. One that will draw LOVE to you, not the love of one specific person.
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Oy..love spells are NOT a solution to any relationship problem.
I'd suggest looking for or creating a simpe spell to help guide him through this rough time in his life, whether he's meant to be with you or if he's not.
If he truly loves you it won't matter what you look like (magickally enhanced or not). If you use love spells to keep someone agauinst their will..I'm sorry but that's morally wrong and no self-respecting witch or wiccan will give you a love spell to do what you're asking. I am truly sorry..I know yo must be hurting, but this isn't the answer you're looking for.
@Denmarkguy (1845)
• United States
6 Mar 07
I really want to respond here, but I am entirely sure HOW.
It bears to be cautious with spellwork, because you tend to get EXACTLY what you ask for. Spells-- for the most part-- are illusions, rather than a permanent change of something. I have to ask you... and I really do not want to hurt your feelings... but are you SURE you want to be with someone who doesn't feel a spark for you? Even if you can cast a spell that makes him see you as the hottest woman on the planet... are you SURE you want to live with the background knowledge that it's really not HIM, but the spell, that's acting?
It's just a question.
Blessings....
