What was it that attracted you to your partner?

the sweetness behind apathy.

The very first time I saw my boyfriend was over at a friends house. He was staying there for a bit babysitting their kids as they both worked. I was over for coffee with her one day and he'd just had a shower and had his hair up in a towel. My first look at him was as he was coming down the last couple of stairs and taking the towel off as he walked. He has such long beautiful dark hair. I'm a sucker for long hair on guys and he definatly got my attention. Once I talked to him a few times and realized that he was actually a nice guy to boot we decided to hang out and see what happened and nows it's been about 14 months for us. I still find his hair incredibly sexy but there's alot more than that that's keeping us together. :)

The way that he treats me, the way that he makes love, and the gentle disposition that is so much a part of him that unlike any other man I have dated in the past reassures me that even when he is frustrated or mad at me that we will not have to come to blows over the issue.

The very first thing was his eyes...They are so blue that I thought he wore colored contacts. Once I stopped starring and paying better attention to him I realized he had the best sense of humor of anyone I know. We have been together 10 years this year and he still makes me laugh everyday.

It was the look (lovely dark eyes) and,what's more important, the way he treats me. He is not as handsome as other man I used to date. But I think he's very cute. His personality - that's what I was looking for and never found till now:) He is my opposition - and thanks to it he calmes me down every time we are together. I'm dynamic and he is stable. Such a good man:)

it must be becoz of the way he looks. the way his butt curves will shame the most skilled of sculptors' renderings. while helen's face launched a thousand ships, his face had launched my heart in a thousandth frenzy. it must be becoz of the way his eyes lighten up each time i enter the room. or the way his lips part invitingly every time he speaks. it cud be the way his *ss shakes whenever he walks. or it cud be the contented look on his face after a good meal. it must be becoz of the way he smiles immediately after an exhausting and highly satisfying shag. or it must be how he closes all the windows whenever he wants to make love. it must be the way his back arcs when he comes. he is the only one who can make me take back what i say. and the only one who can make me admit my mistakes. i really don't know why i am attracted to him this much. all i know is that i am.:)

It was a mixture of things. I was initially attracted to his personality and intelligence. I later learned that he had a great sense of humor and I think that's what really does it for me. Also, the ability to hold conversations. I think that so many relationships suffer because the people involved do not know how to communicate with each other.

I would have to say that it was his personality. And his looks. My fiance is a very up front person. He doesn't hide his views, and if he has something to say, he does it. I have always admired that. Some people hide everything inside, and thats not the way to go about it. I have been with my fiance for over 8 years, and I'm looking forward to many more.