What would you do if your friends husband/boyfriend/girlfriend came on to you?

If my friend's spouse or lover came on to me, I wouldn't flirt back. I would tell my friend immediately that her husband/boyfriend hit on me. Of course, she would be in denial at first and probably start hating me and it probably would ruin our friendship. But it's best that she would know.

I'd feel really awkward and I'd definitely tell my friend about it. And the same goes even if I don't know the guy's girlfriend/significant other. It wouldn't feel right to be with someone who so blatantly cheats and if I was with him, I would wonder if I was worth anything to him. Like you said, even if he was the most attractive person in the world and had everything I ever wanted, I would feel a lack of trust between us and that's a huge turn off.

Definately report them. That is wrong on so many levels. First because it is cheating, and second because it is an attempt to seduce their lovers friend, very disrespectful.

I would probably go off on that person. And then I would tell my friend no matter how bad it would hurt he/she would have the right to know what is going on. I know I would never let anything happen between me and them cause as you my loyalty is to my friend.

Yes i will tell my friend about it, even if i did have a sort of crush in the guy- i wouldnt trade it for my friendship. Besides my friend has to know that her boyfriend has cheating tendencies, i wouldn't want her to be hurt by some rat. I will also do what i can to avoid the guy- or just ignore him to prevent any complications or any misunderstandings between me and my friend.

I'd smack her in the head PERIOD! And not with my d_i_c_k. LOL I hate cheaters. It's one thing when something happens spontaneously, you fall in love with someone else... It's natural. But just to cheat, to be such a parasite, and to do that to your friend, you have to be a real scumbag. I really don't know what I'd do if I ever caught my girl with my friend, let alone my best buddy. I'd probably gone postal. And in this case, if my friends girlfriend came on to me, I'd refuse, and tell my friend. I wouldn't let him be with her, until he'd fully realize that she just tried to cheat him.

I would tell them when the time was right not right away but would tell them. I would aslo tell the person hitting on me that if I was what they want then get out of the other relationship first. If they did then I would not date them either.