Considerations For Naming Baby
By silverflower
@silverflower (519)
Pakistan
March 6, 2007 6:36am CST
A pregnancy is a time filled with many emotions, from excitement to anxiety and happiness to insecurity. One of the important and positive decisions a couple usually decides on during this period is a name for their precious baby-in-waiting.
Time-honoured choices include names originating from the Bible, family lines, or cultural heritage. Another popular choice is to seek individuality in naming a child. Many people want something different, such as nature-based names -- Sunflower, Ocean, or Meadow -- or names based on favourite movie stars or fictional characters. The popularity of Michaela as a girl's name rose dramatically in the early 1990s about the same time as the television series Dr Quinn, Medicine Woman went to air.
Inspiration and influences come from many areas. Each parent has a list of favourites and those they dislike. The process of picking out just the right names may be difficult or very easy.
When choosing a name for the child, there are certain considerations one should take into account for the benefit of the little one.
1. Is the name going to cause embarrassment?
Sometimes names have connotations associated with them, or are old-fashioned names now hijacked to mean something entirely different; Fanny, for example. Other names may bring to mind a rhyme which is uncomplimentary. Consider not only of the first name, but how it will interact with the middle and surnames.
2. What initials will the child have?Certain initials, when combined, spell out unfortunate words or acronyms with some other meaning. For example, a child with the initials D.O.G. may come in for some ribbing at school.
The words spelled by initials may not necessarily be unflattering. For example, a friend has a child with the initials B.R.G.R. It immediately brought to mind the word "burger" and has become an inescapable association with that child, though one could never call it a problem. This demonstrates the effect, often unintended, of a person's initials, and puts it in the category of a consideration of naming baby.
3. Is the name difficult to spell or say?A child with an unusual name will very easily learn the spelling and pronunciation of their name, as would a child named Joe. However, others may not be so easy to train. Alternative spellings are interesting and can distinguish your child's name from a school roll. However, it may also mean the owner will spend a lifetime correcting people and spelling it out. Is this an issue? It may be for some and not for others, but it is wise to consider all possibilities. The same issue arises with more common names which have several variants, e.g. Georgia, Jorja, Giorgia, and Jorgia.
Whatever names are given to a baby, there is no doubt a lot of thought has gone into the decision. The parents' choices are virtually endless, and the above considerations may help narrow the field of possibilities.
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@josephperera (2906)
• Sri Lanka
12 Mar 07
Though I disregard Astrology and will not allow my wife to do anything important according to it, most Sri Lankans run to them to get a name for the child according to the birth time. But we have a famous person, more of a language professor than an astrologer who give the advice that you have given in your response.
My brother in low is R.Q.Joachim. I always tell him how lucky that his second name does not start with "U". If he was R.U.Jochim, when someone asks his name he will say "R.U.Joachim".
Then the other person will get angry and say "I'm not joking, please tell me your name".
@angel_marie5 (1259)
• United States
8 Mar 07
in our family the new born babies names were taken from the bible or from both parents name to combine or from some books & other people's name with good history & success . our names with my brothers & sister were yet taken from my parents names & their elderlys but for now with my nephews' names were all taken already from the bible .