Is "It" Does Not Important To Ladies??

Wow, I feel really sorry for both of you! I realise that you are probably hurt, but you need to resolve this issue before it gets bigger. First of all, yes, "it" is important to the ladies too. I have a very active "it" life with my husband and we both work towards pleasing each other. It is important that both get satisfaction from "it". Is it possible that she is not getting any pleasure out of it. Sometimes it is difficult to discuss this topic, especially if your wife or you are not comfortable with it. Please start now, talk to her quietly, and first of all you need to explain to her that you want to please her and she needs to tell you what pleases her. Please be patient, it will take time. You need to experiment and either guage her reactions yourself or try to get her to tell you if she is enjoying the sensations or not. It will take a little time but you will both be happier for it. Please do not go and buy films and watch them because some of them can put her off totally. You need to be sensitive to her feelings and go about it carefully and with a lot of tact. I hope things work out for you. All the best