My husband and my son...
By arvee17
@arvee17 (730)
Philippines
March 6, 2007 7:23am CST
I've been staring on my computer for a bit while now thinking of something to write here on mylot. Then i saw my husband and my son simply enjoying their time together. I can't complain anything about my husband. He is such a nice husband and a father. He really enjoys being a dad and i could say that he is doing a wonderful job. At this moment while i'm typing this, he is playing PS2 with my son. My husband is playing while my son is holding the other controller and pretending to play.
Most of the time in the morning, my husband and my son usually goes out and eat breakfast in Mc donalds or Jolibee. They just love each others company. I hope they can keep that up even when he grows up...
How about your relationship with your dad? Are you close to him?
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17 responses
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
7 Mar 07
I'm very glad that your husband and son, have a good father and son relationship. it's best to start out early that way a father and son will be very close when the child gets older.
I personally aren't really close to my dad. i grew up with my grandparents, because my dad was in the navy and he was gone alot. so we never did spend much time together. it is still hard now, because i am in my 20s and my dad and i aren't really that close till this day. that's why i say that it's best to start the parent/child relationship out at an early age.
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@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
8 Mar 07
As long as your husband is there for your son, for more years to come. Then they should have a stong relationship, and it will be helpful through the teen years.
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
7 Mar 07
I was raised by my grandparents which I call Mom and dad, I still have a very good relationship with him, although he lives so far away...I only get to see him about twice a year but call him every single Sunday to let him know I love him dearly..
When I do go home, he stills takes me to this doughnut shop we use to go to when I was younger. We use to take long bike rides together..lol
Sometimes I don't think he sees me as a grown woman...Last time I went home, he decided for us to go fishing like we use to..lol Of course I went and enjoyed myself...We have some marvelous times and I thank him everytime I talk to him for the way he raised me..
great topic...I'm going to call him today...
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
8 Mar 07
I am so glad that your Husband and Son have that kind of Relationship it is so special. Unfortunately my Ex Husband did not have that bond as he was hardly home. He has a good Relationship with my Daughter but with my Son it is not so good.
@qouniq (1966)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 07
I guess relation between father and the child more closer when the child is still a kids compare to when the grown. But this is depend on the person it self. As for me I have a very close relation to my father even until today. He is free to tell me his problem or anything which he have on mind to me compare to my other elder sisters. I have learned that our parent will be more closer to use if we respect and appreciate them.
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@haqueen (236)
• United States
7 Mar 07
yeah i got a real dad but ave never know if amc close to him coz ave never know my dad feelin it had to read his feeling when he is happy u cant realy know it and when he is sad he does not speak out his mind at all sdo it abit hard to know him very well but most guys say that i have the same charecter ..i gues like father like son
i think some r/ship should not be encoraged so closely coz they drive the sons to the negative
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
7 Mar 07
I am a woman and I was Daddy's girl. I miss him terribly since in passed when I was 34, and I am now almost 47. We loved to go fishing, out to eat, shopping, to social functions for Father/Daughter. My sister was Mommy's girl. I used to love to watch my sons with their Dad. Now we are divorced and I only have the boys on weekends but I hear occasionally from my boys about things they do with their dad and his new wife. They all have a good relationship. I also have a great relationship with my boys and they with my new husband.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 Mar 07
I have a good connection with both my parents and I am happy for it. My parents are y support, my rock in life and they alwasy have been =)
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@chinitha_amy (79)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Cool husband you got there. I don't talk to my dad now. he has his own family and i live with my sister. our life is much better without our father around. I hope your husband won't change.
@clavinee (119)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
I just love being with my son. He is my wife's and i's life. When he watches Barney, he usually sings with barney and my wife and I just watch him like every move he makes is the first time we would see such action.
My father and also had a good relationship. So my son and i will also have that loving relationship just like what me and my father have.
@greychute (30)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
ehehe, you know my answer. right? ^.^
it's a pleasant moment having my brother around.. ^,^
@retardedrugrat (4791)
• Canada
7 Mar 07
I am VERY close to my father. Very close indeed.
My parents are not my parents in the biological sense. They couldn't have children and so they adopted me. Then 2 yrs later, they adopted another child and I had a younger sister.
Mom always favored my sister, and I realized that at a very early age. To make up for that dad tended to show me more attention and we became very close.
It's a relationship that has grown ever dearer since I moved overseas to be with my partner. My dad cried when he found out I was leaving. I have days where I miss him terribly, but I know he's only ever a phone call away should I need him, no matter what time of day or night it is.
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@ARIANNELEXI (798)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
wOW,its a good feeling to have a husband like that. Same with you while im in the computer doing mylot or having my overtime work from officework, my husband is caring and playing with my two daugthers though we have two household help. When me and my husband is in the house without work we make sure that we are both a hands-on parents. WE both enjoy having and caring for our daugthers. I am very lucky to have my husband who cares for me and especially with my daugthers.
@estarga (1188)
• United States
6 Mar 07
My relationshi with my Dad is pretty good I think. As a child of course it was great and of course we have had our issues during the teen years. But it is fine now. The only thing I could say is that my Dad or rather my parents still try and parent me although I am married with my own kids and I do understand now that I have children of my own. I can not imagine how hard it is to let go.
I have 2 little ones with the oldest being 5 and I love to sit and watch them interact with their father when they all don't know I am not looking. I see the love and joy in all their eyes and it really gives me a great feeling.
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@paragtalking (250)
• Greece
6 Mar 07
My relation with my dad is not fantastic butt good one
He does not express himself early or in the way he actually can.
But he is nice as human,honest.
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@zhuanclub (57)
• China
7 Mar 07
now i am a husband and a father.my wife is a teacher whom is very busy with her work.and my daughter is 2years old.she is very clever.i love them as they love me.because i love them,so i do what i can do for them,i enjoy that.tomorow is the Women's Day.congratulations to all women!
