how can i get a long lasting relationship
@leonardakpaniwo (221)
Nigeria
8 responses
@coolcatzz (1587)
• Canada
6 Mar 07
That is a really difficult question to answer without knowing you. Maybe you are trying too hard. I don't know how you are meeting people but the right one will come along. You just need to always keep the lines of communication open and you need to both have trust in one another. Relationships take work and time for them to succeed. I wish you all the best. Mrs. Right will come along.
@thunderstrike (21)
• South Africa
6 Mar 07
I totally agree with you but nowadays people are hardly trusted i'll also advice him that chicks of today are ONLY after what you have NOT who you are (NOT all of them but 90%). Good luck, maybe you'll get someone from the 10% NOT 90%..!!!
@072006 (1276)
• India
6 Mar 07
hey hi friend, well fot life of nay relation ship , it needs a same environment what a small baby or plant needs, it needs care, trust , understanding, and most imporatnat is lots of love, we we are in realtion, we need to understand its every responsiblities as well dedication towards it, if we are good at all, then realtion ship definately last for life long, have best luck there, be happy!!!
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
As i have seen in your profile, u-r just 19 years old. . You are still young, a lot of good things ahead of you. I think it would be much better to enjoy the greatness of life first. Continue what u keep on doing now. Love will come, in an unexpected place and time. The more u-r looking it will never come your way. Believe me! I've come this far in life to made me realize that. . I'm 32 and i've been figuring out for the longest time why until now i still haven't found the right man for me. . . So for the meantime, let's enjoy life. It's fun and great to being single you know. Don't think much of it. If ever u enter into another relationship, do everything to make it work. Goodluck my friend. (",)
@cutebaby4 (196)
• India
6 Mar 07
If you want your relationship to last long, have a realtion with a lot of jokes, but dont pull the leg too hard, or you wil regret
@chokolate (123)
• United States
6 Mar 07
You have to have honesty and trust in one another.Being jealous will only push your partner away in the long run.Try not to spend too much time together in the beginning.This will only make you tired of seeing each other so much.
@ompower (65)
• India
6 Mar 07
Hi mate ! You need to focus on the other person. Concentrate more on creating a sense of genuine friendship without ego barriers. Be considerste and caring. Love and respect are 2 items which you get in plenty by giving it freely.
I am in a long relationship with a person who is lazy, self centred and malicious quite often. Yet the relationship goes on finely, because I have adjusted.
Some great guy ( I think it is Robert Schuller) said that " you can never control what others say or do; what you can do or say is perfectly in your control". The quote may not be verbatim, but it is something to that effect.
@ichampin (593)
• India
6 Mar 07
I just wanted to say that, Trust is the most important factor that binds together two pwople for a long time, If you have no trust in your partner then your string of relationships would loosen easily and at one point of time it will break. Trust your partner and try to make him/her trust you.
@shlynx08 (56)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
tips...
i guess for a relationship to work we have to work on it but should be both ways... its a give and take relationship... it needs time to see if the relationship is really worth it...
trust, respect, loyaty, patience and love
its all or nothing... we have to deal and try our best to work things out...
were all different you just have to understand and accept each other... and hope for the best...